How to ride

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Registered: 11-28-2004
How to ride
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Sun, 11-28-2004 - 10:58pm
I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and I am scared to ride him. I just don't know what to do and how to do it. Please help . oh yea don't laugh at me.
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Registered: 11-28-2004
In reply to: shadeofmocha
Sun, 11-28-2004 - 11:45pm
I Have tried it once and it hurts because he is bigggggggggg. His D@#$ is fat and long (9 inches)
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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: shadeofmocha
Mon, 11-29-2004 - 12:02am

If you're on top, then you're in control. If going too deep hurts you, then you move to a position that won't let him go so deep! If you position yourself over him, then move slightly backwards......he won't be able to go deep enough to hurt you.

As far as knowing what to do and how to do it.....when you're on top, it's about you. Try kneeling, not squatting, and just slowly and sensuously moving your hips in a circular grinding motion. Most women love that position, because it's the best way to get some "g" spot action from intercourse, and the orgasms that result from it.

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Registered: 11-10-2004
In reply to: shadeofmocha
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 8:49pm

girl! some of the best sex I have had comes from riding my boy!

However I was really really scared the first time I rode my boyfriend. But he calmed my nerves by telling me step by step how to do it.
Tell him your fears and ask him to coach you along.

Hope that helps!

Let me know if you want more details.

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Registered: 06-06-2003
In reply to: shadeofmocha
Tue, 11-30-2004 - 9:09pm

Hi! Innocent cat!

Im not the original poster, but I would like to know more details!

Im pretty bad when i try to do that position, It wont work for him?

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Registered: 11-10-2004
In reply to: shadeofmocha
Wed, 12-01-2004 - 12:35am

I would start by asking your man to help you step by step.
Don't be scared.

let him put his penis in you. (it is still hard for me to do so)
sit on it comfortably with your legs bent.
I would start by just rocking back and forth.
Ask your man to grab your butt and coach you and lead you on going up and down.
From there you can do what comes natural.
Don't give up if you slip up or it feels weird the first couple times.
When you get the hang of it you can bring you legs down parallel to his.
be careful. you don't want to hurt anyone!

just relax and have fun.
it really helps to have someone there coaching you alongthe way.

let me know if this helps.

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Registered: 11-28-2004
In reply to: shadeofmocha
Sun, 05-29-2005 - 8:28pm
Thank you for asking for more details.
I am in the same boat But I am scared that he can not feel it or I am not doing it the way it needs to be done. I Dont want him looking up at me like girl what are you trying to do. I am good at everything eles but riding. I don't want him to guide me because I would really feel like I don't know what I am doing.