hubby's birthday

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Registered: 11-10-2006
hubby's birthday
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Thu, 08-02-2007 - 4:34pm

I hope it's ok to post this on two differant boards. I also posted it on the Laura Corn board. If not, I'm very sorry. I just need all the help I can get!

Hi,
My hubby's birthday is coming up soon and I want to do something special for him. We have been kinda in a rut for a while and I would really like to get us out of it. He doesn't see a problem with our sex life.So I would like to do somthing that would really knock his socks off (or his pants) ;) and show him what we have been missing. Things I have tried are lingerie, romantic dinners, I have even watched porn with him but nothing seems to get us out of this rut :( I just wanted to add that we get along great and do really love each other. Thanks for reading this and I can't wait to hear your Ideas!!
keya

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Registered: 08-01-2007
Thu, 08-02-2007 - 4:41pm
Hi!
This will probably sound terrible coming from the women ranting about anal sex on another discussion, but allowing him to make love to you via your anus could be something he would really enjoy. Not sure how you feel about that, or if he's into it, but many many men are!
Good luck!
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Registered: 04-19-2007
Thu, 08-02-2007 - 7:28pm
I'm also going to suggest you surprise him with an offer of anal sex. Several years ago, in a completely unexpected way, my DW surprised me the ame way on my birthday. Unbe knownst to me she had all the necessities read to go. Afterward she told me she had done some online research and also got a few tips from a mutual friend, including "don't knock it until you try it" I consider her a grea friend now!! Anyway, I recommend the "bum sex" offer, good luck.
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Registered: 03-11-2005
Fri, 08-03-2007 - 4:40am
Here are some things we enjoy:
Toys-Use them together.
Mutual masturbation. I love to watch a dildo go in and out of DW'S vagina.
Dirty talk-Tell him what you want him to do to you using dirty, slang words. Tell him how much you like his penis(using dirty,slang words). Tell him how big it is and how it fills you up.
Another more kinky thing that we enjoy is for DW to use an anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a BJ. Really intensifies my orgasms.
You say that you have tried warching sex DVD'S together. Here is one that you might like to give another try. It is from Adam and Eve and is called Forbidden Lust. It is about two couples who go to a sex retreat to improve their sex lives. Alexandra Silk is the instructor and she gives instructions to each oouple while they have sex. It includes intercourse, touching, oral, threesomes, foursomes, toys and prostate stimulation using a strap on. It is very well done with good looking people. DW and I find it very erotic to watch during sex.
Have fun pleasing him!!!
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 08-03-2007 - 9:16am

Welcome to the board gal_keya.

You've gotten some good ideas here. Another thing you might want to consider is doing a lap dance or striptease for him. If you have a video camera, you could also try making a videotape for him of you masturbating.



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Registered: 11-10-2006
Fri, 08-03-2007 - 7:01pm
Wow, Thank you all for the welcome and all the great ideas! We do have anal sex, If is his favorite thing to do in the bedroom and with the suggestion of it got me thinking maybe I could write up a fantasy story with anal sex as part of it and give him a little part of the story each day leading up to his birthday.What do you think?
I also know he would love a striptease. Lol,looks like I may get to go shopping for some new lingerie :) Whats a really good song to strip to?One of the dvd's we have has a women doing a striptease I will have to pull that out and watch it this evening when he gone to work.
I will also do a search for that movie it soulds like a good one,oldkinky do you know any good sites online that have it? Lol, I will be sure to do some dirty talking to him too that would really shock him :)
I really do want to give you all a big thank you. I really am trying to liven up things in the bedroom so I do appreciate all your help!If you think of anything more I'd love to hear it.
Keya
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Registered: 10-28-2006
Sat, 08-04-2007 - 3:10am

Misty stole my idea!! LOL! Deffently do the strip tease!!
Also you could buy a blind fold and touch him and tease
him! Dirty talk is a good one to. Toys are lots of fun!
When it comes to music that depends on what you like. I like
to strip to the loosen up my buttons,By the P*ssy cat dolls Need you tonight by INXS
Hips don't lie by Shakira. That's a couple ideas.

Have fun!!!!

Kareese.

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Registered: 03-11-2005
Sat, 08-04-2007 - 5:16am
gal_keys-Try adultdvdmarketplace dot com. For a list of other sources look at reviews of Forbidden Lust in adultdvdtalk dot com. Hope you can find it. It will drive both of you wild.
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Registered: 11-04-2003
Sat, 08-04-2007 - 7:00pm

My gf gets hot by whispering things in my ear that she would never say in front of others. And when she gets aroused, that arouses me. Maybe you could take your DH shopping with you for stripper shoes. He doesn't need to know what you want them for. Ask him to be your shoe fitter and when he puts them on your feet, open your knees and let him glimpse a little bit of heaven.

Since he already likes anal and you have done it, whisper about that when you are in public. Get him very hot in a place where he can't do anything about it. Let him look up your legs, with panties if he is a panty man, without if he likes that. Just let him know that he's looking at part of his birthday present.

On the ride home, sit sideways in the car with one leg up and show him more, maybe touching yourself and letting him taste. But, only at stop signs or red lights! My ex did this until I read the scene in "The World According to Garp" where a woman's parked car was rearended while she was performing oral sex.