Husband has a ODD fantacy?!
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Husband has a ODD fantacy?!
| Mon, 05-14-2007 - 1:07pm |
My husband wants me to have sex with another man in front of him, he says because he gets pleasure out of watching me...which i think is odd. He says he would be in total control of the situation making the man stop anytime he says so. We've never invited anyone into our bedroom before, yet he keeps on about this. Does anyone else think is weird? OR have you expierenced this?
Edited 5/16/2007 2:22 pm ET by mrs.schultz
Edited 5/16/2007 7:34 pm ET by mrs.schultz

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Let me get this right.. he is willing to let you have sex with another man? anyone YOU want?all he wants to do is watch? where is the problem? you have permission to have sex with any another guy and the best part: HE IS OK WITH IT!!! how could you not take advantage of a situation like this! you get to pick any guy you desire and screw each others brains out.. Hun i say you go for it there are millions of girls that would love to be in your position and plenty of guys willing to step up to your plate!! So pick one OR MORE if he lets you! Let us know how it goes!! just out of curiosity how old are you and your husband where about are you two from?
Jason
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Yes, this is odd, though not unheard of.
Seriously though, does he really think he can get the other guy to "stop any time he wants"? Have you ever known ANY man to just stop in the middle of great sex simply because he's asked to? Come on.
And what circumstance would lead your husband to ask the guy to stop...if you were having too much fun? In that case he's jealous that the other guy is getting you off. If you AREN'T having any fun, then he'll be pissed that you weren't giving the situation an honest chance at success.
Not sure I see how this can be a win-win situation if you're not really into it, and it doesn't sound like you're really into it.
Mrs. Schltuz
Sorry I did not see this one sooner. It looks like both sides have already been presented, all three need to have the option of saying no, stop at any time then stop for a little while take a breath, stop for the day or just stop, that is if you and your husband decide it will expand your relation-ship and not hurt it.
Jason B. S.
Welcome to the board hunting4answers.
I wouldn't want to be with another guy either, and I think what you plan to tell your DH is a good plan. You might want to also talk with him about other fantasies you can share together if he keeps bringing it up. Many people use toys and videos to substitute for this type of fantasy.
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