I am being naive here?
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I am being naive here?
| Wed, 02-23-2005 - 11:58am |
I have never had a girlfriend suggest strapping on a dildo and doing me, but I see talk of it quite often here and the fantasy seems to be quite popular (although I am beginning to beleive its usually guys who are posing a women in this instances). Could REAL women out there tell me if this is a fantasy of yours or not and why? Thanks.

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It's a fantasy of mine.
I don't want to emasculate my husband with this sort of submission from the normal male roles in sexual relations, but rather I want to switch roles with him. Its role reversal at its finest. For me, I want to do it because I want to be my husband for a night. I want him to know what its like to be in a submissive role. He likes when I give him the prostate massage and other things to his backside because it feels good, not because he has any tendencies. I love giving it to him because I know from experience that it feels good. The strap-on is equivalent to a penis, niet? Where does the power lie for a man? In his penis...Its what makes him a man and being a man gives him power, so to speak. By giving me a "penis" I then get to become him and he then gets to become me and submit to my will. I'm dominate anyway..He must lie down for me and let me take over. There's nothing sexier to me than a man willing to do this. I love my DH and find him incredibly attractive and sexy. I love experimenting with him. I love that we make boundaries only to break them..Gimme a cop suit to go with the strap-on and we've got a fantasy come true.
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Being completely dominated by my wife is my number-one fantasy. She's used a vibrator on me at times, but she's never gone as far as I've desired. I did buy her a cop outfit a few months ago, though, along with thigh-high leather boots, and that was pretty awesome.
The biggest reason this fantasy has gone unfulfilled is because I'm afraid to tell her the full extent of it. Someday I'll work up the courage.
Does your husband know you desire to use a strap-on on him?
This is a fantasy of mine.
I mentioned this to my DH for the first time the other night and to my surprise he was all for it. Can't wait for it to happen. It seems it has been a fantasy of his for a long time but he was afraid to bring it up for fear that I would think he was "strange".
So, now we are waiting for a night when the kids go to Grandma's for the night and it will be time to play.
Why does this appeal to me? I love seeing my DH enjoying something without the responsablity of pleasing me. In this case, it will be all about his pleasure for a change.
The reason it appeals to him is the taboo aspect as well as being submissive. In a world where he feels responsible for so many things, this is something that is taken out of his hands.
And by the way, my pregnant belly definetly defines me as a woman.
I like you..
My DH was all for it as well when I told him. I explained why and that I want him to feel what I feel when he's in control.
My pregnant belly defines me as a woman too!! 4 months pregnant and going tomorrow to find out if I won the bet or DH did..I can't wait to spend that $50 on a strap-on..hehe
Ok I HAVE to jump in on this one......lol.
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