I am being naive here?

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Registered: 03-13-2004
I am being naive here?
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Wed, 02-23-2005 - 11:58am
I have never had a girlfriend suggest strapping on a dildo and doing me, but I see talk of it quite often here and the fantasy seems to be quite popular (although I am beginning to beleive its usually guys who are posing a women in this instances). Could REAL women out there tell me if this is a fantasy of yours or not and why? Thanks.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 4:23pm

Yes, these boob-loving men just don't seem to appreciate how difficult it can get to lug those puppies around all day long.

But I wouldn't count on losing much breast mass after delivery and nursing since that's not the case with every new mom. Sometimes they can actually get bigger! I'm about a size larger than I was pre-pregnancy. Not to mention that age and weight gain have an impact as well.

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Registered: 08-12-2004
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 5:34pm
Hey Kat and Jen,
I just want you to know that you're not alone. My DGF has the same dilema. She get's accused of them being fake all the time. As well as she has those nipples that, no matter how thick the bra is, just have to..."stand out and be noticed!"
As far as lugging them around...I offer to carry them for her as much as possible.
Picture that one...LOL
I do sympathize though. Remember, thereare plenty of women out there who wish they were burdened as you are.
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Registered: 09-25-2004
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 5:56pm

Oh, good lord..You're scaring me now...

I'd gladly donate mine to whoever wants them!

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 6:00pm
I honestly don't understand why they'd want to have enhancement surgery. Its not fun to have men zone right in on your breasts rather than your face. You become a pair of breasts more than a person. I want to be recognized for my talents in medicine and at home than I do for having a set of knockers that would give my DH a black eye if we weren't careful. Each to his own, though!
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Registered: 08-12-2004
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 6:39pm
I understand completely. I've never been a breast man. I love my GF for who she is. It is funny and sometimes annoying to see what she has to go through when we're out. I've overheard men making coments before. The worst I've done is upon leaving for home, I walked up to them and said "Yup, they're REAL, and they're going home with ME" LOL
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Registered: 09-25-2004
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 11:37am
I've never had that happen, but you now when an eye wanders from your face to your breasts. After awhile, you learn to ignore it..But, deep down it hurts to be see for your breasts than your talents..
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Registered: 03-01-2005
Sat, 03-12-2005 - 6:43pm
Well, I personally believe that there's no bad consequence in letting her do this to you. I don't think it makes her crazy, nor will it make you feel obligated to see yourself as weird or different because of this. It all depends with the security of your relationship and your own comfort level. I don't know if there's any limit of expression as long as there are two consenting adults that care for one another.
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Registered: 09-25-2004
Sun, 03-13-2005 - 10:40am

Jersey, you're absolutely right.

There are no set limits in a relationship regarding sex if both partners consent and know full well what they are getting in to. Security does play a big part. If both partners are very secure in their relationship, then there's really no limit to sex..Have at it and have fun, by all means..But if one is unsure and squeamish, even after, then it does tend to leave a mark..Or an elephant..

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