I am so confused

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-30-2005
I am so confused
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Thu, 06-30-2005 - 2:17am
My boyfriend and I were together today and he gave me oral and I am very close to orgasming but I just cant. I dont know why. Is there anything I can do that would help me? I tried masturbating but it doesnt feel the same. Also when a girl does and she cums is it just a clear liquid?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: niki376
Thu, 06-30-2005 - 7:49am

You have to allow yourself to have an orgasm.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: niki376
Thu, 06-30-2005 - 9:10am

The best thing you can do is to forget about orgasms. If you're thinking about that, then you're not thinking about what's happening at the moment. The minute you lose concentration on the pleasure you're having, you lose it all. Worrying about whether or not you'll have an orgasm is the best way NOT to have one.

Just enjoy what IS happening, and don't worry or think about what's NOT happening.