I bet most men wouldn't do this

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2006
I bet most men wouldn't do this
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Fri, 11-10-2006 - 8:54am
Why is it o.k for a man to receive oral sex and then go to sleep, leaving his partner all hot and bothered? I just wonder how many men would actually give their partner oral sex and then be expected to go to sleep without any satisfaction.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2001
Mon, 11-13-2006 - 5:44pm

I would say that he's got more than "some" sexual issues.

I don't know what to do about this one. Obviously he's old enough and ugly enough to know what a sexual relationship should be about. It doesn't sound like he's going to change in a hurry and he seems quite certain about what he wants and how he wants it and any discussions about it haven't really come to much, have they?

Whether or not he really believes the sex is morally wrong or not is beside the point. Upshot of it all is that you are not getting anything close to what you want and need and he's not going to give it to you.

>>Is he weird?<<
Maybe, maybe not. Again, it doesn't matter. What is important is that you are not going to get what you want from this guy and I don't think that you ever will. He seems very set in his ways and has a strong opinion about them. He knows what he wants and he doesn't want to change.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-2006
Sat, 11-18-2006 - 12:03am
Well for starters I am more of a giver than reciver so coming from my point of view I would have to say I would rather give it with out asking for it or even expecting to get something for doing it befor my wife went to sleep. Just seing her pleased is enough for me and knowing that I can do that makes it even better.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-18-2006
Tue, 11-28-2006 - 11:02pm

Hello.
My husband would and has before. He really only wants to make me happy even if he doesn't finish. Why don't you ask him to do you first next time?

Good Luck!
GEG

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