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I cant believe this happened
| Wed, 07-27-2005 - 6:10pm |
I finally ended up having anal sex with my MM for the first time ever, and let me be the first to say it was terrible because I pooped on him!!! Not a lot just a little bit and i was so embarrassed, he remained calm while i wiped it off of him, and he said its natural and i started crying because i never felt so embarassed in my life, It hurt at first but when i got into it i loved it. Does anyone have any tips so the next time we try it i wont go through this again? How can I have better anal sex without worrying about having a bowel movement?

omg, i've never heard of that happening and i feel so bad for you cuz i kno how you must have felt. I hope some one gives you some kind of advice cuz my bf is into experimenting w/positions and i'd hate for that to happen.
Good luck next time!!:)
I've never had that happen to me during anal but I've heard it on the boards many times before.
You didn't "have a bowel movement"! He was inside your colon, and that is where there is normally feces. If you're going to have anal sex, then you should try to empty your bowel before hand, but as you know, you can't always do that "on command". You could also do a "warm water enema", but unless you do it immediately before, it won't really help, because in a normal bowel, the feces are constantly moving downward.
If it didn't bother him, then don't let it bother you. This is part of anal sex. If he goes where the feces are, then he gets feces on him.
Hooooold on there! Did you say he remained calm and even tried settling you down during this episode?
All together everybody:
"KEEPER!"
Now, Tish beat me to sharing those links with you, so do yourselves (you and that pretty decent guy of yours) and check those links out, they're pretty informative, along with the great advice in the replies so far.
I like the fact that you're in such a relationship that recognizes its made of both good AND bad situations that you lovingly deal with . Sorry, but I can't help but congratulate you. Miserable situation, but it didn't end that way. I tend to believe that we all have our equally uncomfortable moments, whether we choose to share them or not.
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C H A R A C T E R
If he was really concerned about getting "poop" on his penis then he wouldn't be engaging in the act, would he? Don't worry about it. It washes off.
He knows what comes out of that orifice and so do you, so why be surprised?
Enjoy it and if it never happens again or every time, don't worry about it.