i cant get wet!

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Registered: 01-20-2005
i cant get wet!
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Sat, 03-12-2005 - 9:33pm
when i get wet it lasts like, 5 minutes and then by the time he gets his pants off, i'm TOTTALLY dried up, so we're stuck using lub-i cant tell he hates it (so so i!!!) but i cant help it! even when i REALLY wanna have sex we cant unless we have lub...anyone know why?! thanks!
ps-even with TONS of foreplay this happens!
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: dunno1234
Sat, 03-12-2005 - 10:22pm

There could be many reasons for it or it could just be the way you are.


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Registered: 01-11-2004
In reply to: dunno1234
Sun, 03-13-2005 - 6:19pm

Hi dunno1234:


From the post, I get the feeling your guy is NOT into foreplay.

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: dunno1234
Mon, 03-14-2005 - 8:46am

Has this always been a problem for you? Could be something as simple as being dehydrated. Do you drink enough water during the day? If not, then try drinking 6-8 glasses daily and see if that helps.

OR it could be that you just don't produce much natual lubrication. But since we can't really adjust or change how much we make, it's pointless to worry about it. Just keep the lube handy and educate your partner about female lubrication.

Just as he has no control over the amount of ejaculate he produces, you have no control over the amount of lubrication you produce. It's a just minor annoyance, nothing more.