i cant last!!!!!!

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Registered: 06-16-2006
i cant last!!!!!!
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Fri, 06-16-2006 - 5:44am
i have a major problem with premature ejaculation. last night i was giving my girl oral sex, and i ejaculated. i could tell it was about to happen, but she was into the oral sex, so i did'nt want to stop. the louder she got and the more noise she made just turned me on that much more. and then it happened. we went back for a second round. she was giving me oral sex but i could'nt get hard. but as soon as we got in the 69 position i was able to get hard. i think my mind is playing tricks on me. i need help. BAD!!!!
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 06-16-2006 - 8:52am

You were able to get another erection so why do you see this as a problem?


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Registered: 01-14-2006
Fri, 06-16-2006 - 12:47pm
As time passes and you get older, you will discover that giving oral sex
to your lady is one of the best errection enhancements available to you.
And to think some guys refuse to accomodate their loves.
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Registered: 06-16-2006
Fri, 06-16-2006 - 10:11pm
this is the first time this has ever happen during foreplay. i cant last no time during intercourse either. sometimes i feel im anxious. like i cant wait for intercourse. maybe this is my problem. we are never in a rush. so i dont know why i feel like i cant wait. i love giving her oral sex. she has multiple orgasms, and most of the time has to make me stop. at least im good at that, cuz sex right now seems to be a struggle for me.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 06-17-2006 - 9:32am

Don't stress


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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sat, 06-17-2006 - 8:44pm

>>last night i was giving my girl oral sex, and i ejaculated.<<
Don't stress about it. I've had the same thing happen. You're not going to get an erection instantly afterwards either. You need a bit of time for your body to recover. Combine that with the stressing out and embarrassment from ejeculating while giving her oral and that's probably why you found it difficult to get another erection during a BJ. After a bit of time and with less pressure on you when you went into the 69 you got your erection. Sounds all pretty normal to me.

As for not lasting during intercourse? Well, it is a matter of time and training and familiarity. You'll get used to the sensation and while it's happening you'll get used to knowing how close you are to cumming and you'll develop your own technique to deal with that. Just before you reach the point of no return try stopping moving - or even withdraw for a few seconds so that you can let the orgasm subside. Yes, it is a bit start and stop, but it might be better that cumming.

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Registered: 06-16-2006
Sat, 06-17-2006 - 11:42pm

westridge, i sorta thought that could have an effect. im pretty sure most of it is all in my head.

thanks Tish, for the link. looks very interesting.