I cant orgasm anymore :(

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2004
I cant orgasm anymore :(
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Tue, 07-13-2004 - 4:52pm
I don't know what is going on. I am 22 years old. I went off birth control last year, and also had a laproscopy to remove a cysts last July also.

I have ALWAYS been able to have an orgasm from intercourse 99% of the time. And for about the last year and a half I cannot acheive an orgasm from sex. I can by masturbating and by oral sex....but it is really frustrating that I can't have an orgasm by sex, especially because I never had a problem before.

What do you think could be going on?

It also seems like my sex drive just isn't the same anymore. I can't stay wet for too long either. This is sooo frustrating....I almost think that maybe my hormones are to blame. I have a dr. appt tomorrow for my annual checkup and I am going to mention it to him also, because this just isn't normal for me.

I know some woman would probably kill to have orgasms almost every time from sex, so you can imagine how frustrated I am that I USE to be one of those woman, and now im not :(

Please give advice! Thanks
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-19-2003
Tue, 07-13-2004 - 6:31pm
You've left out the most important details here...what is your relationship with your SO like?
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2003
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 7:31pm
Sounds terrible, but good heavens by no means insurmountable. As long as ya still have 'em from oral and The Hand, you should be in good shape ... I'm sure it's temporary, and you'll find someone you're totally attracted to and really whoop it up. (Hmmm, unless you're married ... why else would you go off birth control? ...) Could it possibly be that, since you're off b.c. you're somehow not totally comfy w/the idea of getting pregnant or something? Just a guess ... there are many wiser souls than I on this BBS.