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I get grossed out
| Mon, 07-05-2004 - 10:02pm |
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and half years now. And we have great sex and all. Ive gone down on him numerous times and he has gone down on me. Id like to do it more often but the thought of having his penis in my mouth grosses me out! I want to do it more so I can please him. He has cummed in my mouth before and I gaged! I was wondering what I can do to make it more enjoyable for him and I.

Unless you are prepared and know what to expect, having a guy cum in your mouth can be a bit of a shock and surprise. No wonder you gagged the first time. I'd suggest that you take it slowly this time. Tell him before you start giving him a BJ that you want him to tell you when he is about to cum. That way you'll have a second or two warning.
The first few times just pop him out of your mouth as he's about to cum and continue stroking the shaft with your fist so that he cums outside your mouth (just cup your free hand over the tip so that it doesn't spray everywhere! ). Let him cum on your stomach or breasts or somewhere. Once you're used to him cumming like that you can try tasting his cum a little to get used to the taste and the texture.
The trick to not gagging seems to be either to keep his penis at the front of your mouth as he cums and use your tongue to block off the back of your mouth. You can either discretely spit the whole lot into a tissue or you can let the cum dribble out of your mouth and use you hands to rub it along his shaft.
The other way is that you let him cum in your mouth but you swallow several times as he's cumming kinda like you are taking a long sip of a drink.
So take it slowly, get used to how he cums, get used to the taste, and just take your time!
Well, first off, when he is still soft, I like to take him into my mouth (feels great for him because this is the only time ALL of him can fit into my moth) and kinda roll my tongue all the way around him. Going in circles while slowly pulling back as his erection grows. Also, if you cannot fit all of him into your mouth, put your hand right below your mouth and let it move in sync with your head's motions and the wetness on your hand will give him the sensation that all of him is going into your mouth. I also like to turn my head form side to side while going up and down. He moans so loud and I know he loves this. Alternate from sucking to licking. The different sensations felt cause him to wait longer for his orgasm but feel good none the less. One final tip I will say is he loves the feeling of my cheek. I feel kinda silly when I do this because I know it looks silly but anyways...I will open my mouth up as wide as I can, without hurting my jaw, and slide him along the side of my mouth, against my cheek using my tongue on the other side, applying pressure to keep it pressed against my cheek. If you do this, do it slowly and VERY carefully to keep your teeth from rubbing on him. OUCH!! LOL
As far as it grossing you out, I really like to take a shower with him and wash him really good. This gets things going and then I drop to my knees and take him into my mouth. The water really helps him slide easily in and out of my mouth and then you know he is clean, if that is what is grossing you out. Then, when it comes time for him to cum, sometimes I will stop and let him cum wherever or I will swallow. It all depends on you. It does take practice and TALKING. Let him tell you what he likes and ask him to let you know when he is about to cum. That way you either have a warning and can prepare yourself or you can take him out of your mouth and finish with your hand. I kow that one way that helps me not gag is when he tells me he is close, I use more hand on his shaft and keep the tip of him near the front of my mouth. That way I can raise the back of my tongue in front of my gag reflex and when he is done I can just swallow, or you can spit, whichever suits you.
Hope this helps and is somewhat what you were looking for!
If it's just the climaxing in your mouth that is grossing you out, join the club. Better yet, take Westridge's advice and do that. I would do that, but my husband won't let me.