I get turned on tooo fast!
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I get turned on tooo fast!
| Mon, 05-01-2006 - 3:10am |
I have a problem with moving too fast with my dates. I like to punch into the first kiss and do the first move. And I tend to get turned on by the first date and want to sleep with men very quickly. Although I have limited myself to not go all the way with all my dates. (I dont know how I managed to have 4 sexual partners in my whole life time). I tend to get turned on very quickly. I am always wanting to have sex. And I don't like this, I feel like my hormones are raging out of control. Can woman be this way? Am I normal? I feel like I want to have sex all the time and ofcourse, men like this but I DON'T. I am not an easy slut but I have gotten that impression (no surprise). I guess I want to know if its normal to get turned on so quickly. I find myself wanting to have sex with men even if their not so attractive. Sex urges are about 2-3 times a day. Is this normal? Is it normal to want to have sex with men this quickly?
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Who knows what is normal for YOU.
so what's your phone number? --- JUST KIDDING!!! :-)
No, I think that your situation is normal for a lot of young women....especially in today's generation of women who are 15-25 years old. Our youth of today grow up in a hyper-sexual atmosphere and are constantly bombarded by sexual images. Today's media and popular culture place such a high importance in physical appearance, sexual behavior, acceptance, and promotion of sexual issues, that there is no wonder that so many girls and young women are becoming sexually active and AGRESSIVELY pursing, experimenting, desiring and wanting sex!
>>And I tend to get turned on by the first date and want to sleep with men very quickly.<<
Well, I don't suppose that any of the men have objected, have they? Just goes to show that they are getting turned on and want sex too. You're not the only person that wants sex all the time too.
It's well known that most teenage boys are thinking about sex every couple of minutes, and getting erections several times a day. You've just discovered that it's not just guys that are horney all the time. Girls can be too. However it's not really talked about in the same way so it's no wonder that you don't think that you are normal. You are though ;-)
What can you do to stop yourself jumping into bed with every guy that you date? Well, that's a good question. Unfortunately the answer is a combination of willpower and relieving the urge. You are simply going to have to have willpower backed up by masturbating. Masturbate and you won't be so horney; and if you're not quite so horney you may have enough willpower to resist the urge to have sex. Masturbation or not, this is really up to you though. Noone is forcing you to move fast and have sex with these guys.
>>I am not an easy slut but I have gotten that impression<< Well, thats just how anyone gets that reputation. Monkey is as monkey does. If you behave like a slut in other's people's eyes then that's what they'll see you as. Doesn't matter if you don't think that you are.
I think that you should be more careful with the alcohol. That reduces your inhibitions and obviously you aren't deeply worried about what people or guys might think of you if you have a drunken fling with them. If you were *deeply* concerned you would have to be *very* drunk to break through that mental barrier while under the influence and have sex with random guys. You make it sound like you're anyone's after just a couple of drinks. If you are, then watch what you are drinking.