I just bought my first VIBRATOR!

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Registered: 05-09-2003
I just bought my first VIBRATOR!
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Tue, 10-17-2006 - 2:24pm

I am so excited...and confused.I am 34 yo single Mom w/3 kids.I am dating a wonderful man after being alone for 6 years.I've posted my/our issue on another board,but basically we tried to have sex for the first time and he could not get hard.I kindof knew that was why he had made some many excuses in the past about why he wanted to wait.

Anyway,after visiting another board I saw a link to a sex toy site and I bought a vibrator.I was sooooo nervous about telling him because I didn't know how he would react, but we just had lunch together and I just started talking and it came up.He is a very quiet and somewhat unemotional man, but I could so tell he was excited and curious!He asked me if I had used it yet and I told him I was waiting for him.He smiled this huge devilish grin!

I can't wait to get home tonight!!!! Just wanted to share this with someone.

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Registered: 05-20-2003
Tue, 10-17-2006 - 2:38pm

Good for you!

I'm new here, been lurking this morning. And I have to say...this looks like the perfect place for me!

That said, I'm glad you took that step, and that you talked to him about it. Even better that he's "curious" about it. My experience with them both solo and with "help" have been absolutely wonderful!

"The greatest gift you can give someone is a deep attention to the fact that they exist."
~Susan Atchley Ebaugh




Edited 10/17/2006 3:22 pm ET by oodlesnbunchez

      

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 10-17-2006 - 5:03pm
I have a feeling that this could ahem....help or solve his arousal problem. Let's hope so anyway. Have fun!