I just can't finish!!!

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Registered: 01-07-2007
I just can't finish!!!
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Sun, 07-01-2007 - 4:01pm

Heya,

Grrr!!!

Does anybody have any ideas...... Prior to this weekend I've never in my life had any problems having an orgasm but, now, I just can't finish... My fingers are useless. My vibrator doesn't work. I just can't get there!

Help!!!

Any ideas?

Thanks,
Clare.

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Registered: 06-12-2006
Sun, 07-01-2007 - 4:34pm

Masturbating doesn't do it for me at all.


How about watching Porn or adding temperature to your dildo.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 07-01-2007 - 5:34pm

If you're concentrating too much on having an orgasm, it's sort of like shooting yourself in the foot. It just backfires! You need to find a way to get your head wrapped around a fantasy and just enjoy the pleasure that you are feeling.

As Marce mentioned, porn is a great enhancer too. It's a visual fantasy, and you can let your brain take in the images without having to think at all. You can try incorporating things with different textures or temperatures. I find that a fresh air or fan breeze is also nice. I can recommend combining that with running ice cubes on various hot spots. As always, don't forget the lube for your fingers or vibrator.



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Registered: 01-07-2007
Sun, 07-01-2007 - 8:24pm

Heya,

Phew! Got there in the end! Yay!!! :-)

Thanks,
Clare.

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Sun, 07-01-2007 - 8:27pm
WOO HOO!!!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 07-02-2007 - 6:38am
Good going!


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Registered: 01-07-2007
Mon, 07-02-2007 - 2:28pm

Thanks! :-)

Quite funny to look back over this and the other thread now, but at the time it wasn't!

"Yes, yes, yes, yes" and "oooooooooohh, ugh, "COME ON!!!"

:-)

Still, managed to find a way to get there in the end! :-)

Clare.