I know my Husbands Secret.Now WHAT??

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Registered: 11-12-2007
I know my Husbands Secret.Now WHAT??
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Mon, 11-12-2007 - 6:41pm

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Mon, 11-12-2007 - 6:49pm
Okay, that's kind of weird. I'm not circumcised either, but it's certainly not something that I've ever been embarrassed about or felt that I had to hide �� then again I also have a condition that prevents my foreskin from retracting, so it would be hard for me to hide it if I wanted to. In your shoes I'd bring it up with your DH outside of the bedroom sometime, and just him know in as low key a way as possible that you know he isn't circumcised, and that you have no problem with it.






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Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 11-12-2007 - 7:02pm

It's amazes me that he has tried to keep it a secret from you and that he thought he could keep it a secret.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 11-12-2007 - 8:32pm

Welcome to the board, inkiew.

It is amazing that he's been able to hide this for 2+ years from you. If he is embarrassed by it, then it's probably due to a bad experience in his past. The best gift you could give him is to let him know that you're okay with it. Maybe the next time you shower together, when he starts to pull the skin back, you could just stop him and let him know that you want to pull it back yourself, or see him as he is.





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Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 12:01am

What makes you think it's a "secret"?.......one look is all it takes to see it!

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Registered: 11-12-2007
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 1:13am
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Registered: 01-19-2006
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 9:23am
My DH is intact, and I prefer that term to "uncut", because intact is how they arrive in this world. Try and tell him you find his penis and him sexy, and discover for yourself how erotic foreskin is - because believe me, it is.

I do find foreskin sexy, and love to play with it, push it back, hold it there and watch how the sensation changes for DH.
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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 5:35pm

I find this discussion a bit ridiculous.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 11-13-2007 - 8:10pm

I'm not sure why you think this thread is ridiculous.

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Registered: 03-15-2006
Wed, 11-14-2007 - 9:33am
You are entitled to your opinion of course - simply skip over it and read other posts.

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Registered: 06-24-2006
Wed, 11-14-2007 - 3:17pm
Pardon me for saying but you married him and are only finding out now that he isn't circumcised?. Did you not notice before hand?. If he has issues with that then he can always go and get it snipped, otherwise, it really makes no difference at all. My BF isnt circumcised, and when we have sex or I go down on him there is nothing I need to do differently then if he was snipped in the first place, if anything I tell him the feeling of the extra skin moving around when I am touching him makes him feel better. He has no reason to be shy and you should let him know that he looks good no matter what.


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