I Kweef... a lot

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Registered: 07-02-2007
I Kweef... a lot
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Tue, 07-03-2007 - 1:26am
i was hoping i could find someone else talking about this, but i didn't,which kinda makes me feel even more of a freak.. anway, i kweef a lot just about every time i have sex (during), more often in certain positions. it's really loud just like a fart and its pretty embarassing. its distracting and i think my bf gets turned off if i do it too much. sometimes it helps if i squeeze my vaginal mustles together but i get uncomfortable if i do it for too long. why does this happen so much? is this common? and how can i stop it?

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Registered: 04-13-2007
Tue, 07-03-2007 - 2:24am

Yeah, I did it a lot when I met my bf last fall, it's really not a good thing. But I have figured out how to do it less. He has a very large thick penis with a pronounced head, and favors rather extreme penetration, with my legs up over his shoulders. I am a very small person; this may or may not have anything to do with it but it is particulary extreme in my case. He was also in the habit of pulling it all the way out on each stroke, then going alll the way in. Fast. And hard. Well, when this happens hundreds of times in a row, it feels good at first but I finally figured out that it ends up pushing a ton of air into the vagina. The air comes out a few moments later in those awful sounds.

The answer is to be a little less extreme: now i have him not pull all the way out, and i don't put my legs up so high for as long. You want to be having sex with the guy, not to have him inflate you with air!!! Also it seems to me that when I am on top this simply doesn't occur.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 07-03-2007 - 7:43am

This is caused by air being pushed into your vagina, and it can be distracting. When it's happening, try using a different position. As size0 mentioned, shorter strokes with your vagina not as open will also help. Since there is no odor, and it's not something you can control, if it is happening rarely, just try laughing it off with your BF.

From Wikipedia:

"Techniques such as exercise (e.g. the Kegel exercise); avoidance of sexual positions where the woman raises her hips and thighs; and artificial lubrication are commonly used in minimizing occurrences of vaginal flatulence."

If you want to look up information on the topic, try searching for queef or vart.



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Registered: 02-28-2006
Tue, 07-03-2007 - 7:49am
Hmm, I wondered whether Kegels (and/or using smartballs) would help with that, but without knowing for sure I hesitated to post about it. That's good to know, thanks Misty.

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 07-03-2007 - 12:33pm

It's a simple problem of female anatomy. Your "insides" aren't "fixed in place". When you get into a position where your pelvis is higher than your torso......everything inside, mainly your uterus, shifts upwards. When that happens, it elongates the vagina, and it pulls air inside (or air gets pushed in). When you come back down to level, with your pelvis at the same level, or if you sit or stand up, the uterus comes back down, and pushes the air out. Keep your pelvis as low as the rest of your body, and it shouldn't happen.

However, if it DOES happen, it's nothing to be embarassed about. Ignore it, and I'm sure he's doing the same. It happens to everyone.

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Registered: 11-15-2006
Tue, 07-03-2007 - 5:28pm
This happens to me as well and as everyone else explained what it is. Only thing I can add is you should not be embarrassed about it. Think of it as a reminder of great sex! Point out to your boyfirend in a loving way, "Look what happens when we do this together, we make beautiful music!!!"



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Tue, 07-03-2007 - 6:13pm

I'm a kweefer and its emabarassing but me and my boyfriend just laugh it off. The thing is we have room mates so we have to put on the tv or music. I'm thinking most of my kweefs, I'm cumming and squirting, wow! I cum loud with those kweefs. It mostly happens when I'm in doggie position with my butt way up in the air. But its the greatest position for me.

 

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Registered: 03-17-2007
Tue, 07-03-2007 - 10:23pm
It happens to me sometimes and my dude doesnt get turned off. He says that he assumes that it means that i am really turned on and that he is hitting the right spot and doing the right thing. I agree. It happens mostly when i am very juicy and that is should actually make you gus laugh not turn you off. The body makes really weird noises. When you think about it sex is really great and everything but its also funny. You make the wierdest faces and say the funniest things and so on. Just tell him to lighten up and enjoy sex to stop expecting it to be like a porn. I hope i helped. :) (nervous)
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Wed, 07-04-2007 - 8:18am

Welcome to the board punamai. Thanks for joining in.



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Wed, 07-04-2007 - 3:14pm
Thanx for the invite. I will be there. What does IRL mean?
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Wed, 07-04-2007 - 3:17pm
LOL, I think that's the question of the day. It's at least the second time I've seen it posted today. IRL = In Real Life.

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