I Kweef... a lot
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I Kweef... a lot
| Tue, 07-03-2007 - 1:26am |
i was hoping i could find someone else talking about this, but i didn't,which kinda makes me feel even more of a freak.. anway, i kweef a lot just about every time i have sex (during), more often in certain positions. it's really loud just like a fart and its pretty embarassing. its distracting and i think my bf gets turned off if i do it too much. sometimes it helps if i squeeze my vaginal mustles together but i get uncomfortable if i do it for too long. why does this happen so much? is this common? and how can i stop it?

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Yeah, I did it a lot when I met my bf last fall, it's really not a good thing. But I have figured out how to do it less. He has a very large thick penis with a pronounced head, and favors rather extreme penetration, with my legs up over his shoulders. I am a very small person; this may or may not have anything to do with it but it is particulary extreme in my case. He was also in the habit of pulling it all the way out on each stroke, then going alll the way in. Fast. And hard. Well, when this happens hundreds of times in a row, it feels good at first but I finally figured out that it ends up pushing a ton of air into the vagina. The air comes out a few moments later in those awful sounds.
The answer is to be a little less extreme: now i have him not pull all the way out, and i don't put my legs up so high for as long. You want to be having sex with the guy, not to have him inflate you with air!!! Also it seems to me that when I am on top this simply doesn't occur.
This is caused by air being pushed into your vagina, and it can be distracting. When it's happening, try using a different position. As size0 mentioned, shorter strokes with your vagina not as open will also help. Since there is no odor, and it's not something you can control, if it is happening rarely, just try laughing it off with your BF.
From Wikipedia:
"Techniques such as exercise (e.g. the Kegel exercise); avoidance of sexual positions where the woman raises her hips and thighs; and artificial lubrication are commonly used in minimizing occurrences of vaginal flatulence."
If you want to look up information on the topic, try searching for queef or vart.
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It's a simple problem of female anatomy. Your "insides" aren't "fixed in place". When you get into a position where your pelvis is higher than your torso......everything inside, mainly your uterus, shifts upwards. When that happens, it elongates the vagina, and it pulls air inside (or air gets pushed in). When you come back down to level, with your pelvis at the same level, or if you sit or stand up, the uterus comes back down, and pushes the air out. Keep your pelvis as low as the rest of your body, and it shouldn't happen.
However, if it DOES happen, it's nothing to be embarassed about. Ignore it, and I'm sure he's doing the same. It happens to everyone.
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I'm a kweefer and its emabarassing but me and my boyfriend just laugh it off. The thing is we have room mates so we have to put on the tv or music. I'm thinking most of my kweefs, I'm cumming and squirting, wow! I cum loud with those kweefs. It mostly happens when I'm in doggie position with my butt way up in the air. But its the greatest position for me.
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