I love group sex!

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Registered: 10-31-2006
I love group sex!
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Tue, 10-31-2006 - 3:11pm
My husband and I had sex with a amateur swimmer after we went to one of her meets and it was spectacular! Me and my husband both loved it we have had sex with her 2 more times in the 12 days since then. It has allowed me to explore all the wonders of a sexual relationship. My husband enjoys having penetrations with both of us and I don't care who he does it to as long as I'm there. Me and the swimmer Lauren have both given him oral sex,anal sex, and when my husband was working we had a good discussion and we are going to try to get her unknowing boy friend to have sex in a foursome (Sounds like fun!).
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Registered: 06-17-2003
In reply to: phaster
Sat, 11-04-2006 - 5:00am
I'm sorry to hear of the death of your son's father. Some of us grow up really fast and some never do. I commend you for stepping up to the plate at such an early age and being a responsible person. In my opinion I think most of us that are older and wiser can look back and say that maybe our parents weren't as dumb as we thought they were when we were teenagers. Only a select few under 25 are dry behind the ears. I'd love to hear from Sally again in 10 years and see how her life is going. Right now I feel sorry for her.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: phaster
Sat, 11-04-2006 - 6:44am

Hey Btdt, it's been a very long time since you've been around.


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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: phaster
Sat, 11-04-2006 - 6:58am

I'm sorry for the loss of your child's dad, so sad at such a young age.


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Registered: 06-17-2003
In reply to: phaster
Sat, 11-04-2006 - 7:20am

I'll have to wait and see. At my age I get a bit upset with some of the posters that think they know everything. As a whole you have some good heads on here. Keep up the good work.

I set up my own Forum a year ago last May and it's slowing down a little so I have more time. I do have a couple of people that came with me from here. We'd been together here since about 1997 and went through all the changes. It's a small close bunch and I frown on sex talk but they do work it in a tiny bit. LOL

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Registered: 08-08-2006
In reply to: phaster
Sat, 11-04-2006 - 12:18pm
You got knocked up at 16 & you are giving ME advise?
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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: phaster
Sat, 11-04-2006 - 5:14pm

I see that a few people have said pretty much the same thing that I did. I'm not saying that what you did was wrong or what your husband did was wrong. There are plenty of people that do this sort of thing and have a good time. No, it's not terribly common, but it happens and people enjoy it.

What does stick out is that it seems very one-sided. This wasn't something that you and your husband discussed and thought about and wanted to do, and then planned and carried out for your and his pleasure. It happened because he lost a bet and used you as payment to those two guys. If anything it seems that it was for his pleasure and enjoyment and very little thought was given to your pleasure, your enjoyment and, indeed, even your feelings about it. It was very much "Hey honey, this is what the score is. I lost a bet and I'm going to get you to blow these guys cause I don't want to pay up the money for the bet I just lost. By the way, the guys will be here in an hour."

Another thing, have you considered the implications of this? I reckon that there is a good chance that your husband could turn around now and say "Well, I got you a couple of guys to have some fun with, how about you get me two girls to have some fun with?"
Are you comfortable doing that and seeing him kiss and ejeculate inside other women?

If you are comfortable with this sort of thing, then that's great. Just think about it though. For every open marriage that works, there are plenty of relationships that have hit the rocks, been changed forever, or blown apart by this sort of thing. It's usually wise to think about and plan and talk about this sort of thing before doing it. You've got to make sure that both husband and wife are comfortable with what's going to happen - or what might happen. I don't see that there was too much talking and planning in your situation and that makes it seem like you're being used.

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Registered: 10-12-2006
In reply to: phaster
Sat, 11-04-2006 - 5:27pm

Yes, I did get pregnant but then again I go to an Ivy League school. Perhaps, I had my reasons for getting pregnant which I don't care to explain on this board, nor would people understand.

I'm sure some of the wise and lovely ladies who are in their 30s and 40s on this board frown upon such an early pregnancy, but they compliment the fact that I handle it so well. They also compliment the fact that, unlike if you get pregnant, I'll know who the father is.

And....2 reasons for the pregnancy #1) my boyfriend and I knew each other our entire lives, he had leukemia...we decided to have a child. We were young, but I am incredibly mature for my age and knew I would have a support system to help me
#2) We are Sicilian, consider our live story like that of Romeo and Julette, when our son came along we knew that it would stop a lot of family problems.

Meg
mom to River

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Registered: 08-08-2006
In reply to: phaster
Sat, 11-04-2006 - 6:06pm
You just must continue the insults saying I would not know my baby's father if I got PG. FYI I have not had INTERCOURSE with anybody but my husband so it's a bit hard to get a Bun in the Oven from Sucking penises. My husband introduced me to oral & we had discussed me blowing others for several months before I did it, You are entirely too presumptuous along with several others here not knowing all the facts. OH! By the way I am currently a student at Northwestern so give me a couple of more years & I will have a husband, a degree & will NOT have a illegitimate child!
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Registered: 06-29-2006
In reply to: phaster
Sat, 11-04-2006 - 7:42pm
Let me be the first to offer an apology. Somehow, I was under the impression you were including intercourse with your extra curricular activities.
If random blow jobs are all that you are being asked to perform on your loving husband's "good" buddies, then it's safe to say that you shouldn't have any concerns with pregnancy.
The worst that may happen is that you contract some sort of venereal disease that causes your teeth to fall out, (which may well heighten the demand for your services).
As far as being "all knowing", I too, once had this exceptional attribute, but lost it somewhere some fifty years ago.
once.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-12-2006
In reply to: phaster
Sat, 11-04-2006 - 8:59pm

Oh, I thought you were having intercourse with these other men.

Anyway, let's get back on topic. Like that previous poster said (who's SN slips my mind right now) if you want an open relationship that is fine. What is not fine is you letting your husband use your body when making bets with his friends.
My son was born illegitimate, and you use that against me? Welcome to the 21st century, a lot of kids are born out of wedlock. I was engaged, at least that's a start towards marriage. At least my son will have a mother who isn't, well, (the rest of the group snickers).

Northwestern, hmmm you're not too smart for someone who goes to such a fine uni who lets her husband use her like that. Where'd you find this guy?

By the way, I come from Sicily and I'm raised in the hood. Come down to southside BX or Compton and see we live in the real world. We don't need some fool who's husband uses her for bets telling us how to live and survive. Also, I translate Arabic, I'll make more money and be more useful to this country than you ever will.

Note: Northwestern is a good school

Princeton is better.