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I miss it!
| Thu, 01-11-2007 - 1:09pm |
I miss physical intimacy!! It’s been 13 months since I’ve had sex. I’ve kissed and touched a little over the past year (it doesn’t count because he was a jerk!)…that’s it! I’ve always been one of those people who doesn’t struggle too much with having an inactive sex life. Since I prefer to be physically intimate only with a man who I’m in a relationship with, the idea of having sex with a man whom I’m dating casually – or a man who I’m not really dating – has never appealed to me.
Now, I realize that I am human….I am a woman with feelings and, well, urges. What is a woman to do in this situation?? I KNOW that I’m not emotionally able just have sex with any man just to satisfy an urge. I’ve done it once before, and I felt guilty, so I vowed to never do it again. I do miss that closeness, though. Not just sex, but hugging and kissing…holding hands. I’m not dating anyone now…I’m “talking” to a guy who seems nice; however, we’re just getting to know each other. He’s very attractive physically. So, what do I do??
Now, I realize that I am human….I am a woman with feelings and, well, urges. What is a woman to do in this situation?? I KNOW that I’m not emotionally able just have sex with any man just to satisfy an urge. I’ve done it once before, and I felt guilty, so I vowed to never do it again. I do miss that closeness, though. Not just sex, but hugging and kissing…holding hands. I’m not dating anyone now…I’m “talking” to a guy who seems nice; however, we’re just getting to know each other. He’s very attractive physically. So, what do I do??

You've answered your own question. What do you do? You continue to see this guy, and decide if there's anything there, not only on your side, but on his. You don't want "casual" sex, so you need to be in a relationship to have "serious" sex.
You've waited this long, so you'll wait a little longer until you decide where this new relationship is going, or if it's going anywhere.
Hi.
Thank you for the advice. I guess it seems obvious what I should do, huh?? Well, hopefully, he'll turn out to be something nice. Of course, I'm not going into it with too many expectations. It's just that it would be nice to have that kind of intimacy again...
Thanks again.