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| Thu, 03-27-2008 - 4:40pm |
ok i got with my girlfriend and we are having sex the first time. i am having touble about it. first problem is that i cant stay hard all the time. it goes soft easily . When i am watching porn or jerking off i can stay hard all the time. the second problem is that i am having touble putting my dick in her vagina. i dunno if it is too dry or what is wrong, i just can put like 1-2 inch in and cant go further then... my dick go soft. third is, when we are having sex, i cum too quickly. i try going slower and stop but i cant control it. can any1 help me?
Edited 3/27/2008 5:05 pm ET by johnpoon
Edited 3/27/2008 5:07 pm ET by johnpoon

Time and experience and confidence will help you!
Welcome to the board, johnpoon.
Is this your first time having partnered sex? It's fairly common to run into some problems the first few times you have sex, or the first few times you have sex with a new partner. Nerves, anxiety, it all plays into it.
Spend a good bit of time during foreplay exploring each others bodies. This will increase the arousal for both of you and should help the actual act of intercourse go more smoothly.
If you're watching a lot of porn and masturbating frequently, you may have to back off from that. You'll experience different sensations during partnered sex than you do during masturbating, so you want to be able to respond to all of those new sensations. Typically, your own grip is going to be firmer than her vagina; you can set your own pace during MB, but not so much so during intercourse.
If you need to know more about how her body will respond, sexually, you might want to visit www.the-clitoris.com.
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