i need help like you wouldn't believe...

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Registered: 07-02-2008
i need help like you wouldn't believe...
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Wed, 07-02-2008 - 6:46pm
my boyfriend cannot get me off. no matter what he does, it seems like nothing works. we've tried oral sex, fingering, penetration, but nothing seems to work. after the first two times this happened, i was embarrassed and for some reason decided that the best thing to do was to fake it. now i'm stuck. a little background: i've known the guy for a year, and we've been dating for a month and a half. i'm attracted to him, and during foreplay i do get wet, but it never goes any further than that. when he goes down on me its like i can't feel anything, there's no...excitement, i guess,

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Registered: 07-04-2008
Fri, 07-04-2008 - 4:16pm

Maybe you should talk to a doctor? If it's a physical response that's lacking, maybe there's a hormonal imbalance or something.


If you do orgasm by yourself, but not with him, then that would indicate that it's not physical. But if you never orgasm no matter what, then perhaps there's something a doc can do.

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    Registered: 12-28-2007
    Fri, 07-04-2008 - 8:49pm

    Hi buttercup - This post peaks my curiousty, for some reasons of my own.


    But, I wanted to ask, you mentioned having orgasms with other guys....did you have feeling then?


    And I was already wondering if you are taking a new medication...antidepressent...but someone else asked that and I'm waiting for you to answer that.


    I'm thinking...if it can not be attributed to medication and you have had "feeling" there with other guys....than maybe it is like a "panic" mode with him.

    Missy

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