I need to laugh at this...

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Registered: 03-04-2007
I need to laugh at this...
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Wed, 10-31-2007 - 9:36pm

You can say "I told you so" or I can tell myself "It's all my fault"


I met this guy from Myspace.

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 9:48pm
No point in saying, "I told you so." It doesn't sound like you were terribly invested in this guy, and you figured out that he's a sleaze before you got there. I'd say, "congratulations" and, "better luck next time" instead.






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Registered: 03-04-2007
Sat, 11-03-2007 - 6:42pm

Thanks Steve, but I don't know what you mean by this sentence:


"...and you figured out that he's a sleaze before you got there...."


I really liked him on the first date because he was a gentleman.

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Registered: 02-17-2007
Sat, 11-03-2007 - 7:47pm
I think he means before it got too involved for you.

 

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Registered: 03-04-2007
Thu, 11-15-2007 - 9:03pm

original poster here now:


I need to post this update now!!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 11-16-2007 - 8:07am
"Would he have continued to sleep with me if I never found out he has a GF?"



He and his GF may have an open relationship, but from what you have mentioned in your posts here, it doesn't seem like that's the case. He would have continued to sleep with you until it no longer worked out for him.



"Do male and female friends watch movies together at their apartments, alone?"



Yes, they do. Most adults who are "friends" are capable of spending time alone together.



"What do you all think?"



I think I wouldn't want a friend who I didn't feel I could trust. It's important to me that the people in my life are honest with me. From what I'm reading in your posts here, you and this guy don't have a developed friendship. For me, I would not want to implicate myself into his life -- I would want to respect his GF. If they have an open relationship, then I would have to decide how I felt about that.




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