I need tips for sex on top
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I need tips for sex on top
| Mon, 02-19-2007 - 3:56pm |
My boyfriend and my sex life is great. I have no problem w/ trying different things (anal, toys, etc). The one problem is, I'm not comfortable having sex on top. I guess since i've started having sex, all my partners always spolied me and gave me what I wanted (sex w/ me on the bottom, with legs and body in different postions and doggie style always worked for me). I know my boyfriend gets tired and would like me to get on top so he can relax and do nothing for once, but i'm so awarked. When I go up and down just straddling it doesn' seem to work, i get worried about him slipping out. I also can't get down the art of thrusting on top. I've heard that moving in a figure eight feels good, but does it for him? The only postion that i feel comortable in is the reverse cowgirl, but that can get tiring and I want something. Please help! Thanks!

You make it sound like it's a chore! If you learn to do it right, he'll have to fight you for top! WOT isn't going to "do it" for many men, but that doesn't mean they can't just lay there and enjoy watching you! That's what most men like about it, they can relax for a while, and watch YOU enjoying yourself.
First, don't squat on your heels. Your thighs won't last very long that way. Get on your KNEES....and don't try to imitate him by up and down and in and out. Just get comfortable, and slowly and sensuously grind against him in a circlular motion. You can throw in some hip thrusts for variety. If you get it right, you're getting clitoral stimulation, and you might even get some "g" spot action....and for many women, that will cause ejaculation, too.
You weren't "spoiled" by your former b/f's, you were cheated if they didn't encourage you to try it!