I slept with a nice cristian boy
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I slept with a nice cristian boy
| Mon, 10-16-2006 - 12:20pm |
So I met this Cristian man 2 months ago, we went on 2 dates, both haven't had sex in a whole year. We did pretty qyickly...but it lasted 10 seconds. I felt bad that I had moved on so quickly that by the second date I called things off. Although sex was only 10 seconds (i stopped it)...I couldn't help but remember him, he was very polite yet a little cocky, a little aggressive. So I decided to call him back after 1 week and tell him we should take things slow. He stated that he would and that we should continue talking, the whole few 4 weeks after that where motives to have sex. Motives to make me comeo over at 3am in the morning...all the same. Its like he had changed from this gentlemen and turned into someone a bit more cocky and gave me hints to sleep with him. I'm used to this, but the reason why I'm even posting this up and I am sorry I am not getting to the point fast! But I DID sleep with him a few days ago, I didn't really care to take him serious, it was sexual attraction from the begining, so no big deal. Anyway, its AFTER we had sex that is bothering me! We went and had sex for 2 minutes, he stated he was embarrased, I felt a bit bad but I wouldn't hold it against him. Men finish quickly...well some, but not a big issue for me. After we finished, he sat down in front of me and told me this is wrong agaist the LORD, to not tell anyone! because he respects me enough not to tell anyone, he stated that he will like to talk to me still but sex would never happen again. that basically that night with him was an awakening of the things he shouldn't do. He said he wasn't going to have sex for a whole year again! I feel weird...this is so new to me, I was expecting the jerk who doesn;t want to call you again. jerk undercover?? He stated that he was sorry for this and for being so aggresive with me from the beggining, that he was aggressive because he was in the mixed emotion of wanting to have sex but in the same time, the LORD is what lingered in his head at times.
What do you think? I couldn't help but wonder if he was saying all of this so I could leave...cristian boy gone bad? I'm confused :(
What do you think? I couldn't help but wonder if he was saying all of this so I could leave...cristian boy gone bad? I'm confused :(

Mom_joslin, I can see why you are confused. I am a Christian man and his actions are very confusing to me. Perhaps he thinks that God does not want him to have sex until he is married. However, he did tell you that he will not have sex for another whole year.
I can't fathom what he is trying to prove, except that he is somewhat weird.