I stink at this!

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Registered: 12-04-2003
I stink at this!
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Fri, 05-21-2004 - 12:37pm
I stink at sex, I have no idea what I am doing! I have been with the same man for 15 years and just recently I have realized that I stink at sex! Any suggestions of web sites or book??

Thanks

Krisyg

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Registered: 12-04-2003
In reply to: krisyg
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 12:21am
My husband's affairs have nothing to do with me, he made the decsion to have them. If it was sex then he should have said something to me, I am a very caring and giving person and he knows that I would do anything sexually he wanted, he never asked.

Thank you for the advice about law school, maybe when I get my marriage back in order or finalize a divorce.

Krisy

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Registered: 12-04-2003
In reply to: krisyg
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 12:25am
Thank you for your advice, I have however have tried to work on this marriage and he has not given me anything to work with. He does not want this and does not want to work at this.

I don't think he has any idea of what he wants. I see a therapist once week for me to work through my issues and sex is one of them.

My husband means the world to me and if this is not what he wants, then someone out there will want me.

Thanks again

Krisy

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Registered: 01-10-2004
In reply to: krisyg
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 9:59am
krisyg,

believe it or not you do not stink at sex. IT IS YOUR PARTNER WHO STINKS AT LOVE.

two loving people cannot be bad at making love remmeber i said loving.

if he cheats then he is not loving and only looking for 1 thing,getting himself off.

a couple cannot make love if one is just thinking of sex. making love also has an emontional value to it.

LOL i sound like dr. phil
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: krisyg
Sat, 05-22-2004 - 9:27pm
I agree, Hell to Raise. Anytime you ask for or venture an honest opinion from/to someone, there's a 50/50 chance that you'll hurt or be offended by what you hear. That's just life. So, if you don't really want to know what someone thinks, then don't ask.

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