I think my labia are too big :(

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Registered: 04-06-2005
I think my labia are too big :(
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Tue, 07-12-2005 - 8:35pm
I have ALWAYS had issues with this....my inner lips protude alot and I'm so self conscious about them. Do men think that large lips are ugly? I wish I didnt have such a complex about this. Usually I am so good about loving the way I look. My boyfriend has never said he didnt like them, but when I told him how I worried about how I looked he was just like "oh hon...." I wish he had sais, "no baby I love them". Ugghhh.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 07-14-2005 - 11:15am
Yes, most models, actresses, whether in porn or not, admit that they don't look the same in person as they do in print or onscreen. It's all "magic."
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Registered: 12-29-2003
Thu, 07-14-2005 - 12:58pm

Kat,

Your suggestion to check out the links, etc. for "normal" labia was great. What people see in porn is not "normal" . Those women are mostly selected for having small labia, especially now that almost all of them are shaved. In addition, those who are in "professional" porn movies are probably surgically altered ( look at how many have breast enlargement). Finally, still photos can very easily be digitally altered to fit whatever size/look desired.

Incidentally , I've seen at least one website that says that larger labia are MORE attractive. Of course that's also a site that claims women prefer penises that are 8" or longer.

I would think the only issue would be if the woman was suffering discomfort from rubbing under her clothes.

taoist

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Registered: 07-14-2005
Thu, 07-14-2005 - 10:42pm
I've always thought my labia are quite large too, but it's never been a real problem for me or my partners. At least no one has ever complained (funny how guys forget about most everything once the panties come off!!)
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Registered: 01-06-2004
Fri, 07-15-2005 - 3:54pm
some men like it large some men don't it just like penis size and women some will love you for who you are some will consider what you have a deal breaker


Edited 7/15/2005 4:05 pm ET ET by dr_blar
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 07-15-2005 - 4:44pm
Sigh. Such is life.
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Registered: 11-26-2004
Fri, 07-15-2005 - 4:56pm
...that's a shocker. It's not as though the size of a woman's labia has anything to do with a man's pleasure during intercourse. The pleasure they yield is all hers. Just when you thought you've heard everything....
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 01-06-2004
Fri, 07-15-2005 - 8:03pm
no really a shock on another board i sometime post on labia size gets in heated debates just as penis size threads
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Registered: 01-11-2004
Sat, 07-16-2005 - 12:00pm

Hi liquidlover:

If a guy is THAT close to your genitals, he WILL like/love he sees and TASTES! lARGE LIPS JUST MEEN MORE TO BURY MY FACE IN....Mac

 

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Sun, 07-17-2005 - 12:05pm
huh? pleasure? what are you talking about?
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Registered: 03-13-2005
Sun, 07-17-2005 - 12:14pm
I wouldn't worry about it one bit! I bet it looks -very- sexy, especially when "in use". No worries. People are unduly harsh on themselves. Me even: although I did get a large penis, I have never liked how it curves downwards -- I don't think it looks all that cool. Current gf absolutely loves the thing and thinks it's the coolest thing since sliced bread! You just have to not worry one single bit about the things you can't control.

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