I want to have sex in public

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-20-2004
I want to have sex in public
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Tue, 12-28-2004 - 10:15am

I keep thinking I want to initiate a sexual experince with my w while in public. I think about it at times. I want to hear about any experinces other people have had and was it exicting or worth it.

I have never done it but I know my w had in past relationships. I do fantisize about it and want to make it happen

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-20-2004
Tue, 12-28-2004 - 11:38am
Then you have to make it happen ... it ain't gonna by itself! Still, I think this is more college gf than wife material, because in the case of the former, if you get caught, no big deal, but it could be extremely embarrassing to your wife, depending. Hint: don't get caught.
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Registered: 06-19-2004
Tue, 12-28-2004 - 12:41pm
I think in the car is safe (w.r.t. not getting caught) but still very exciting!! You can put the car anywhere...romantic...car parking...you name it! Does it count as sex in public? I think so!
I would suggest to her you want to do it in public, thats the only way how it could possibly happen!
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Thu, 12-30-2004 - 6:49am

This has to do with your wife's revelation that she'd done it with a former partner. It bugs you that she did something with someone in her past that she doesn't want to do with you. You're fighting ghosts, and you need to let it go. I hope you told your wife that you don't want to hear any more about her "exploits" in the past!

She's with you now, and so I guess that former partner wasn't all that exciting.....because if he was, you wouldn't be in the picture, she'd still be with him. If you want to excite her, find something to do with her that's uniquely YOUR idea, not a copy cat of something in her past. She's told you she doesn't want to do that, probably because she's grown up now, and that's something that kids do, not mature adults.

Also, something like that isn't usually "planned"......it's something that just happens.

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Thu, 12-30-2004 - 6:34pm

I could be mistaken, but I thought I read a some time ago in our Spicy Side of Sex section on this page that someone "tried" that on the beach at night one time. Never did go as planned because of the tide and the critters and this and that.

I also read about a park bench attempt, but the bloodsuckers came out at night, so that didn't work either.

Gonna have to think it through probably. If you ever decide to do it, triple check the area heavily and carefully...always be planned! Make SURE you know how safe it is and what the 'natural' conditions are really like at the time of day you plan, uh, whatever. These are the hard lesson tips I remember reading about, but I'm sure there's a lot more where that came from anyway.

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