I Want Too Much Sex!!!

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Registered: 05-24-2005
I Want Too Much Sex!!!
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Tue, 05-24-2005 - 1:02am

Im a young woman who is engaged to a great guy and in our relationship sex is not a problem. The problem that I have is that I'm horny pretty much all the time! I hate that even after I've had wild hours of sex I still want more. It's like my vagina (or mind) is unsatiable! I constantly fantasize about giving and receiving oral sex or any form of sex period. What is my issue? Anyone have any advice, suggestions, support, or simply ways to calm it down some?
Id appreciate it

~2hornygirl~

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 05-24-2005 - 11:51am

Sounds familiar. LOL! I've always had the higher sex drive in my marriage and since I don't want to ask my DH to have sex when he really isn't in the mood, I take care of my own needs when he's unavailable. Have you considered doing that?

Or it could be that you're equating sex or using sex as a substitute for something else you really want, like affection or intimacy. IF you never feel truly satisfied, then maybe he's not giving you enough emotional attention. Just a thought.

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Registered: 09-22-2004
Thu, 05-26-2005 - 10:28am
maybe its a good thing ( : I would imagine wanting sex alot is much better than not wanting it at all. I am sure your mate would appreciate you more on the horny side than on the frigid side.
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Registered: 11-15-2003
Thu, 05-26-2005 - 11:41am

2hg,

You are who you are. Accept that you have a higher libido and let it be. All things change and one day this will change too...or it won't. Rather than asking yourself what's wrong with yourself, ask yourself what's wrong with being exactly the way that you are? The answer of course is that you are just fine the way that you are.

Peace.
Scott.

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Sun, 05-29-2005 - 8:28pm

Hi 2HG!

:-D I understand you perfectly. I feel the same way too. But it's nothing to worry about, I'm sure your guy won't mind that. Like the last post said it's better to be horny than frigid. Don't you think? :-)