I wish I could tell ahead of time....
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I wish I could tell ahead of time....
| Tue, 04-20-2004 - 1:44pm |
I just don't want to get involved with a man if he's not good in bed and isn't well equipped. It's not the type of thing you can really ask someone rightout.
Anyone know any clues?
Anyone know any clues?

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there is no way i can think of for you to ask a man if he's good in bed...i mean, what guy would say "no i'm a lousey lover"? LOL
honey
Is there any way to tell if a woman is good in bed before I date them? I really don't want to get involved with a woman that doesn't have big breasts and is good and bed.
Does that sound as shallow when I say it?
If that is important to you, I would just ask them...then they will be able to decide if they want to be with someone that values a "well endowed" male over one that is loving, generous and devoted. You can certainly have both things, but looking for just a "well endowed" male is a prescription for unhappiness.
Peace,
Scott.
Hey Scott,
You took the words right out of my mouth!
Good clue:
But, IMO, if a guy has a mind, penis, fingers and a tongue, then he's coming "equipped" with all he needs to be a good lover. And "good" in bed is such a relative term. In other words, we start at square one with each new partner. All of us are different so what's "good in bed" in your opinion, may not be in mine.
I personally don't think a large penis is necessary at all to have a great experience, nor does it guarentee anything.
Good lovers are made, not born, so no man is hopeless. Any so-so lover can learn to be a great lover, if he's willing and you're willing to teach him how to please you. I haven't met a guy yet who's been able to read my mind!
BTW, what makes you think that you're a good lover? That kind of thing goes both ways so be prepared to be held to the same judgements, criticism and standards that you hold others! You could be asked to prove what YOU say, too.
Edited 4/20/2004 5:15 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
Everyone else seemed very judgemental about my question probably because I didn't share their exact same values. I've been there and done that with an inadequate partner and I know what I want.
Thanks again
Oh Sandy, I'm sorry that they were mean to you.
CL-Yasmin1967
May I have the serenity to accept what I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I
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