IC with Ben wa balls inserted?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2007
IC with Ben wa balls inserted?
18
Mon, 07-09-2007 - 6:05pm
Has anyone had intercourse with ben wa balls, or smart balls, inserted into the vagina? If so, how was the sensation different? Would this be dangerous in any way?

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-15-2006
Wed, 07-11-2007 - 3:35pm
This is what we did. I took an ice cube and instead of putting it in my mouth and performing oral on DH as I have before, I just ran it over his penis and then alternated with licking and sucking him without the ice cube in my mouth. Maybe like 5 to 10 second intervals. When I was warming him in my mouth, I was using the ice cube on me-my breast or on my labia, so I got an idea of how cold he might be getting. Well, THAT got me really worked up so when it was pretty small, about the size of a shelled almond, I slipped it inside me and then immediately got on top of dh. It probably melted completely form that point maybe about 15 seconds or just long enough for us both to cum. I can't really say I felt the ice cube actually inside, but the sensation of it melting and dripping cold water out of me was amazing. We timed it pretty well and I hope to be able to repeat it again!



click here to
Design Your Own Se
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Wed, 07-11-2007 - 4:21pm
That sounds awesome, I may have to try that soon!
Thanks for the idea!
Photobucket
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2006
Wed, 07-11-2007 - 9:06pm
DW and I have a glass dildo that we can soak in ice water ahead of time. It holds the temperature for a LONG time after being inserted inside her, but doesn't have the risk of damaging sensitive tissues that using actual ice would.

Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 07-11-2007 - 9:34pm

I am very interested in a glass dildo, but DH seems to be afraid of them. It usually takes me a while to convince him of these benefits (LOL), so I'm keeping it on the list! I've explained the temperature thing, the weight thing, the cleaning thing .... I actually laugh because it's not even like it will be used on him!

I really think I need to introduce the two of you. Perhaps he will trust a guys opinion more ;-)



Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket
Connect With Me




Making a Second Marriage Work


my partner in the siggy exchange





iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2006
Wed, 07-11-2007 - 9:42pm
LOL!! I had a dream the other night in which a bunch of us who *know* each other from the boards rented a big house in the Outer Banks and got together for a week long meet and greet. I was just down there with DD in April, and Michele was pretending to wander around looking for me. ;o)

Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 07-11-2007 - 10:17pm

I think you're trying to jinx me! I can see me now ... later this month when I am there with GOBS of extended family, I'll be walking in my sleep looking for my rubber ducky with the ball gag!!!!

DH will be ROFLHAO while I try to explain to everyone :-)



Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket

Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket




my partner in the siggy exchange






iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2006
Thu, 07-12-2007 - 3:20am
ROFLMBO!!!!!

I went on camping vacations with my family there several times as a kid, but the first time I was there as an adult was 4 years ago for a gathering of DW's family to celebrate her parents' 50th wedding anniversary. DW has 7 brothers and sisters, so there were LOTS of people there that week, along with huge helpings the usual intra-family drama. Personally I think my board friends would be a lot more fun to hang with.

Photo Sharing and Video Hosting at Photobucket

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-15-2006
Thu, 07-12-2007 - 6:59am

Misty,

I highly suggest you get a glass dildo! There is no other feeling like it.
As Steve mentioned, you can chill or warm it as well!
Why would your dh not be receptive? If he is afraid it will break, tell him there is no way it could break unless he dropped you with it in you! Of course could chip or break if you drop it on a hard surface but we get pretty rough with it and there is no breaking this inside me.
Once you have one you might not ever want another dildo-but be sure to tell your dh you will still want him ;-)



click here to
Design Your Own Se

Pages