Ideas for BF's 21st birthday
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Ideas for BF's 21st birthday
| Mon, 10-16-2006 - 5:00am |
I am 18 and recently began dating a man who will be 21 on Sunday. While we have not been dating for long, things seem to be going quite well and we are moving fairly quickly in the bedroom. We have played around a bit but have not yet had oral sex or intercourse. Had I not been on my period this weekend, however, we would have. We talked about it and he made it quite clear he wanted to sleep with me as soon as I finish my period, and I told him the same.
I intend to celebrate his birthday Friday night since he may be going to a bar after midnight on Saturday night/Sunday morning. My problem is that he told me I am not allowed to buy him anything because he doesn't do gifts, not even with his family. I don't want to step on his toes, but I am a giver so I love to give things to people.
One evening while I was at his apartment, he had several friends over and we were having a Grey's Anatomy marathon (he loves Grey's Anatomy). His favorite episode was the one where George got syphilis from Olivia who received it from Alex. George found this out and yelled at Alex, "You gave me syphilis!" George then proceeded to tackle Alex. Then the disc ended so several people ran out to Blockbuster to get the next DVD. It was extremely hilarious, and made even more amusing because one of his friends knew that a couple shots of penicillin would take care of it. There is a website that sells giant microbe stuffed animals, one of which is syphilis. He knows I have the syphilis stuffed animal already, and I ordered one for him (which he does notknow). I just thought this might be amusing given the reference to Grey's Anatomy. He's an engineer and I'm studying computer science so we are into the whole science bit.
Friday night I wore extremely cute panties to a party that we went to. At the beginning of the night, I told him I had on "festive panties" and he was wondering all night what they looked like. Later that night, we had a bit of fun and he came on me, including part of the panties. I thought about giving him a pair of my panties as a reminder, and I think these will do nicely since they now have history behind them.
I'm also going to make cookies and attach a note that says, "I know you want to eat my cookie, so enjoy!"
My last idea is to make a little booklet of sexual coupons to give to him. Some of the ideas I have include licking whipped cream off of each other, sex with a blindfold, a coupon to try something new (of his choice) in bed, a massage, and me dressed as a school girl. Of course I'll include stuff about just sex, a handjob, and blowjob as well. Does anyone have any other ideas of what I could put in the coupon book? I know it's difficult to say since you don't know us, but anything you think might be interesting would help. I believe he is into some kinky stuff. At least, he responds well to my kinkiness. He's also kind of a switch, and I am more of a sub. If you have any ideas on interesting ways to phrase some of the things I have mentioned, that would help too.
So what do you think of the ideas I have for his gifts? He told me not to get him stuff. Technically, I'm only buying him the syph. Well, I have to buy stuff to make cookies, but I'm making those. I bought the panties for me on Friday, but he liked them so much I just have to give them to him. hehe And really, he told me no gifts, but do you really think I listen? No, of course not. Since he did say no gifts, though, I'm trying to go with meaningful things rather than generic stuff.
I intend to celebrate his birthday Friday night since he may be going to a bar after midnight on Saturday night/Sunday morning. My problem is that he told me I am not allowed to buy him anything because he doesn't do gifts, not even with his family. I don't want to step on his toes, but I am a giver so I love to give things to people.
One evening while I was at his apartment, he had several friends over and we were having a Grey's Anatomy marathon (he loves Grey's Anatomy). His favorite episode was the one where George got syphilis from Olivia who received it from Alex. George found this out and yelled at Alex, "You gave me syphilis!" George then proceeded to tackle Alex. Then the disc ended so several people ran out to Blockbuster to get the next DVD. It was extremely hilarious, and made even more amusing because one of his friends knew that a couple shots of penicillin would take care of it. There is a website that sells giant microbe stuffed animals, one of which is syphilis. He knows I have the syphilis stuffed animal already, and I ordered one for him (which he does notknow). I just thought this might be amusing given the reference to Grey's Anatomy. He's an engineer and I'm studying computer science so we are into the whole science bit.
Friday night I wore extremely cute panties to a party that we went to. At the beginning of the night, I told him I had on "festive panties" and he was wondering all night what they looked like. Later that night, we had a bit of fun and he came on me, including part of the panties. I thought about giving him a pair of my panties as a reminder, and I think these will do nicely since they now have history behind them.
I'm also going to make cookies and attach a note that says, "I know you want to eat my cookie, so enjoy!"
My last idea is to make a little booklet of sexual coupons to give to him. Some of the ideas I have include licking whipped cream off of each other, sex with a blindfold, a coupon to try something new (of his choice) in bed, a massage, and me dressed as a school girl. Of course I'll include stuff about just sex, a handjob, and blowjob as well. Does anyone have any other ideas of what I could put in the coupon book? I know it's difficult to say since you don't know us, but anything you think might be interesting would help. I believe he is into some kinky stuff. At least, he responds well to my kinkiness. He's also kind of a switch, and I am more of a sub. If you have any ideas on interesting ways to phrase some of the things I have mentioned, that would help too.
So what do you think of the ideas I have for his gifts? He told me not to get him stuff. Technically, I'm only buying him the syph. Well, I have to buy stuff to make cookies, but I'm making those. I bought the panties for me on Friday, but he liked them so much I just have to give them to him. hehe And really, he told me no gifts, but do you really think I listen? No, of course not. Since he did say no gifts, though, I'm trying to go with meaningful things rather than generic stuff.
