Ideas on how to handle this?

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Registered: 12-03-2007
Ideas on how to handle this?
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Mon, 12-10-2007 - 3:06pm

I have a situation.

TLC
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Registered: 02-20-2007
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 4:28pm

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 9:36pm

There really isn't a way we can figure out what he's thinking. It could be that he's a player and feels like he has to lead you to believe he's interested in more than sex. I think if you're interested in trying to have a sexual relationship with him, then you should guide it in that direction. Don't give him any reasons to think there's more.

While he's flirty and interested, you should also be open to the fact that he might not want a FWB relationship. Not all guys are into that -- some actually want an emotional involvement too. Personally, I think as long as you're being honest with yourself and with him then you're doing the right things.