I'm confused... it is not hard
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I'm confused... it is not hard
| Sun, 09-24-2006 - 3:46am |
Hi everyone ~
I need some help! I do not have a lot of experience with different men. I have been married for 10 yrs and now have a boyfriend whose penis is MUCH smaller than my husband's. Let me say, it does not affect his performance AT ALL ~ I cum more now than ever, but when I go down on him I really notice it. In fact, if I start off going down on him, it sometimes isn't even hard until I have put it in my mouth and stroked it a few times. Is this normal or is he really not in to it? He acts like I excite him tremendously, but then I am confused about why it isn't hard all the time when we start... it also doesn't get much bigger when he is hard. Am I doing something wrong?
Please help me...

Just briefly:
1) Not every guy will get completely hard every time without some physical stimulation.
2) the size of a penis when flacid has no relationship on how much it will grow when it goes hard.
Keep in mind also that a man's abiltiy to get and maintain an erection is very much affected by his age, health, and by the use of alcohol or drugs.
A guy in his fifties does not walk around with a nearly permanent hard-on the way a guy in his teens or twenties does, and even a young man will find his abilities greatly diminished after several drinks or a couple of joints. Also, many diseases directly impact erectile ability, diabetes being one of the biggies, as do many prescription drugs with anti-depressants high on the list of troublemakers.