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| Tue, 11-02-2004 - 9:58pm |
ok men - fess up! I have had this happen a couple of times in the past and was recently talking to a girlfriend that just experienced a similiar situation......now I'm beginning to wonder how common this is:
A man that has been married for several years and is new to the dating scene - his first encounters with sex with a new partner either ends up with him not being able to get up for the event, OR not able to get to the grand finale. I chalked my experiences up to just nerves and feeling like he was 'cheating' being the first one out of the gate, so to speak. In my experiences it doesn't take long before he's 'back in the saddle' and doing fine.........my friend has encountered a poor man that hasn't been able to 'finish' for almost 2 months of sex with her. It's affecting her self-esteem now!
What's the story?

She just needs to talk to him and find out from him what the problem might or might not be. She shouldn't pressure him if she can avoid it. Maybe get him to a Doctor for a check up if necessary, etc. etc. etc....
Always safe to be "up to date" on the check ups and making certain he is checked with special attention as well, especially as he gets older obviously.
My opinionated guess based upon what you've written would be more on the psychological side than anything else. YES we men here and there from time to time may actually get the ol' jitters, that is NOT that rare...keep that in mind.
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Us gals got to giggling when we were comparing producing sperm to breast milk - don't suppose there's much correlation there, but think about it! LOL it's all supply and demand ya know!