Im a odd lady...

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Registered: 11-09-2003
Im a odd lady...
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Sun, 01-06-2008 - 12:41pm

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Registered: 11-15-2006
In reply to: chicle
Sun, 01-06-2008 - 1:36pm
I read your post twice to see if I could try to answer your question but I really wasn't sure if there was a question in there. My response to you would only be, if you are happy with your life and yourself, then what others say "you will miss out" is only from their perspective. It is YOUR life and you have the right to choose how you want to live it and if not having sex is that chose then that is it! Think of all the people in the world who choose celibacy for lots of reasons. I see nothing wrong with that!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: chicle
Sun, 01-06-2008 - 3:54pm

I think you should only have sex if it is what YOU want to do and what YOU are comfortable with. The opinions of others really have no relevance because ultimately, you have to do what you feel is right for you.

I'm not sure why you're not being asked out on more dates (I think that might have been part of your question). Being attractive is not the only thing that men look for. Do you carry yourself with too much or too little confidence? Do you make eye contact with men or socialize with them when they are around? Are you overly shy or overly overt? A lot of things can contribute to how people react to you.

Meeting people on the internet doesn't necessarily mean it's someone who's just looking for sex. The internet has become a powerful resource for single people. You can research sites for singles and find one that might work for you.

Here are a few iVillage message boards where you might also find more helpful information:

Ask the Dating Doyenne http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rldatingdil
Online Dating http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlcyber
Like a Virgin http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlchaste









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