i'm REALLY confused!
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i'm REALLY confused!
| Sun, 04-17-2005 - 8:39pm |
hey guys, I really need some advice!
When I get intimate with my boyfriend he massages my clit, but I can't feel a thing! It's numb! What's going on, i'm really confused! Could somebody please explain it to me? What can I do to fix it?
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Perhaps your b/f could make sure that you are more turned on before he tries to stimulate your clitoris? Try more kissing and touching first. More time spent kissing and stimulating your sensitive spots - not just the obvious places like your clitoris and breasts and nipples, but that soft spot behind your ear, or the hollow of your neck too. He could try stroking your inner thighs first, or stroking your labia and around your clitoris first and move onto your clitoris when you're more ready.
Are you sure he's in the right place? Is his finger well lubricated? Is he "grinding" away at it rather than just gently stimulating it? Is it numb when YOU stimulate it?
Has he worked his way to it, or just jumped in without a buildup?
Your question is very vague, so it's hard to say......your clitoris is the most sensitive sexual area of your body. Maybe it's that something wrong is being DONE, rather than something being wrong with you.
To make sure you both know what it is, where it is, and what to do with it...check out www.the-clitoris.com