im really hairy ...

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im really hairy ...
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Thu, 01-12-2006 - 4:36pm

ive already been sexually active.. but im always shy to show my body all the way because i am so hairy. not on my arms.. or under arms or anything like that.
Just *down there* and *back there* in between. ISNT THAT WEIRD ?? how hair grows in both those places.. I am too afraid to shave *down there* because the hair is evrywhere and i dont want to cut myself anywhere it isnt suppose to be shaved. ::ouch!::

My boyfriend has never said anything.. besides "let me shave you"
NEVER !!
lol

its too embaressing for me. (i do shave but only on the top part im to scared to go all the way)
any suggestions ??

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 01-12-2006 - 4:49pm

Suggestions? Not really since you said you were too scared to shave.

When you are ready, you just have to be calm, sure-handed and certain that you want to do it. Doesn't sound like you are yet.




Edited 1/12/2006 8:25 pm ET by katmandoo2001
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Thu, 01-12-2006 - 7:38pm
Well I use Nair hair removoal on my wifee, & it works great I covers her entire area with including the split, it doesnt burn and it is very inexpensive, and at times I use on my self cause I never want any delays, so try it, you can do it your self or allow him to do it for you, there is nothing like a bare punanny, everyone eats better when theres nothing crowding the table
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Registered: 12-09-2005
Thu, 01-12-2006 - 7:59pm
shaving all of the area is not hard/bad @ all. in fact it makes you feel much cleaner and fresher. take your time when you shave and make sure you use a shaving gel and a new razor. if this idea just freaks you out too much think about trimming it up. get a mirror/scissors and relax. you will be your worst enemy if you doubt yourself. i have shaved for 15 years and i would never ever go back to the natural way. besides my husband loves it that i take the time to groom EVERYTHING not just my nails/makeup/hair/clothes.....lol....best of luck
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Thu, 01-12-2006 - 7:59pm

lol... sounds good. i willtry it al1405.
and.. its not like i *havent* shaved its justthat my hair grows back in 2 days after i shave that it gets tireding...

Thanks though !

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Thu, 01-12-2006 - 10:15pm
Thought about waxing? I've always been uncomfortable with the amount of hair I have "down there" too. It sounds like you are similar to me. As a teenager I would shave my bikini line and and trim the hair right back. Then in 2004 I decided to get a brazilian done, and I've never looked back. You wouldn't have to get it all taken off if you didn't want to, you could just get the bikini line done, and around your butt done, and trim or shave the rest if that suited you better. Waxed hair grows back softer than shaved hair, and doesn't itch so much. Plus it lasts longer.

 


 


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Registered: 12-01-2003
Fri, 01-13-2006 - 1:44pm
the thought of WAX.. ouch! doesnt it hurt ? especially *down there*
it hurts just to get my browns done.. lol
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Fri, 01-13-2006 - 2:38pm
I guess it depends on the guy, but I think a woman being hairy "down there" and "back there" is a turn-on. Other than trimming so that you can wear a bathing suit, what's the big deal? If it is a big deal with your BF, maybe you should think about changing BFs.
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Registered: 12-24-2005
Fri, 01-13-2006 - 2:49pm

Wow, if I were your BF I would never ask you to shave, and I might even try (selfishly) to talk you out of it if you expressed an interest in doing it. Of course, if all that hair was really disturbing you, I'd support your decision.

I think it's sad, though. You're going to eliminate one of the sexiest features on your body!

Mmmmm...just thinking about all that hair down there on a woman gets me going.

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Fri, 01-13-2006 - 2:51pm
The first time I had it done it hurt quite a bit. But subsequently it doesn't hurt as much because the hair grows back at different rates, so not all the hair has grown back by the time you need to get waxed again. I recommend getting it done professionally, as they know what they're doing, and you know you're not inflicting the pain upon yourself. For me the pain was worth it, because I felt so much cleaner down there, and it was so much easier to maintain. Once a month I would get it waxed, and I wouldn't have to do anything else with it (except maybe tidy up my bikini line if I was going to the beach). You would think that it would hurt less at the front, than underneath, but the opposite is true from some reason.

 


 


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Registered: 12-01-2003
Sat, 01-14-2006 - 3:21am

well i cant juss **find** a NEW boyfriend. lol
i love him and been with him for 3 years... This is ISNT something hes telling me to do. its just my own *personal instinct* thats all... but i think he doesnt care if i am or not. i thought i was just the ONLY one hairy *down there*.

Naleiya ....

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