Inconvenienced about having period
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Inconvenienced about having period
| Fri, 12-08-2006 - 10:00am |
hi there: i'd like some ideas/support ove the issue of having sex whilst on a period. i've been involved with the most amazing and loving bf ever, and we have a great sex life, but i'm due soon, and want to know how to discreetly have sex w/out him knowing about the removal of my sanitary pad, or the smell factor.i'm very aware of cleaning myself fastiduously each time i change my pad, or when i use the toilet (to the point of using Tea Tree wipe for extra hygiene, tho' much to his dislike!) and this will be the first w/end where we'll be together for the when this has happened (we've been toget 4mths now, and each time i've been on, we've been apart). i don't so much mind the blood smears, but it's the smell and the taste for him, as i know he'll just want to give me oral whether i'm on or not. i don't particularly smell that bad, but in my mind, i think he might be put off.. in the long distant past when i've been involved in a long term relat. like the one i'm having, i've never been put off by this, but over the yrs, i seem to have lost some confidence along the way. this time round, i'm with someone who is truly understanding and utterly devoted to me. i know that what he says is genuine and is coming straight from his heart, so whatever fears i have, i should, really have them banished.. i just want us to make love w/out any awkwardness or inconvenience, but i know i shouldn't really think that this is an obstacle, when i know he will be understanding of this.
what do you lot think?? xxd
what do you lot think?? xxd

Let him know you have your period before anything gets started and ask him if he's okay with sex, oral, etc. during that time.
Just keep doing what you are doing, and if you feel uncomfortable, talk to him about it. I am sure he will understand as you say he does in everything else.
Good Luck
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many thanks to all who's replied - really appreciated it!
my bf has never had a problem with having sex during a girl's period, and has made so many reassurances to me about these body matters. he's has the most sensitive understanding to me and my body that i am in one mind confident in what he says, and in the other, i think he's just saying it to be pleasant to me. i know that i am insecure in so many ways as a person, but this issue is something i've not come across before with a guy. guess, i'll just have to go with flow and see what happens...