Independant Woman & Man

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Independant Woman & Man
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Mon, 06-30-2008 - 9:56pm

Hi Ladies:

 

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 11:56pm
Would you like to explain that?
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Registered: 09-20-2007
Tue, 07-01-2008 - 12:01am
Did I miss something here? What have quickies got to do with whether or not a woman is independent or not?
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Registered: 01-19-2006
Tue, 07-01-2008 - 7:44am
I'm glad you asked that question, because I was wondering the same thing. Guess we have to wait for an answer, huh?

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 07-01-2008 - 8:19am

Huh? What does that have to do with quickies?


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Registered: 05-04-2007
Tue, 07-01-2008 - 9:41am

Maybe he meant Quickie outside of relationships. Like: I'm so independent, we just met, let's do it.


Where the other thread meant more like Quickies with the person you're already involved longterm

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 07-01-2008 - 3:14pm

Mac, I'll have to admit, I'm a bit confused by your question also. Hopefully I've answered what you were asking ....

I think women have made great strides in becoming independent, and taking care of themselves. I think they're more likely to stand up for their sexual rights too. In the case of meeting a man, they're probably not likely to just hand out a quickie, but when involved in a relationship, there is an appeal even for the woman.

Some women may feel that takes away the rights they have fought for. Some women may view it as a man taking from a woman .... but there are women who view it as giving something willingly.

In any sexual relationship, there is the chance that neither partner wants to just give without getting anything in return. Some people view it that way when it comes to sex acts, like giving a guy a BJ yet not getting anything in return. If the guy was to demand the BJ or pester her into giving him a BJ, then that's one thing. But, just like any gift you give, there is a certain amount of self-satisfaction you get from the act of giving itself.



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Registered: 03-08-2004
Wed, 07-02-2008 - 7:56am

I'm not sure what you mean either Mac.

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