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| Thu, 12-29-2005 - 9:50pm |
I'm curious. It was suggested that a woman initiating or being interested in sex is something from out of this world. I'd like to hear from the men and women about how their past and present relationships went. Who initiated sex more often, you or them; or was it fairly even?

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For us it's about even, me probably initiating a bit more.
This was said by WHOM? Someone who lives under a rock? Women initiate all the time, and for SURE women (at least most of them) love sex.
In a good relationship, it should be as Tish describes......not something you keep score on, but something that just happens mutually. If it's always one or the other, then something is wrong.
As for me , starting with my honeymoon, my first wife could have cared less to have sex. My new wife loves and initiates sex.
Ok, So, Hump....if you want, we can only take the men's responses into account. I should have made this into a poll, but anyway, so far, Mancreature's both wives were initiators and enjoyed sex, Rice's and your first wife, didn't, but your second wife does. That's three to two. Any other men care to comment?
Edited to add: My original post was about ALL of your past relationships as well as present. Not just those you married. Rice has stated that he's been with five women altogether and none of them initiated, but I think that he's said that some of them enjoyed sex, so I'm not sure where they'll fall? tee hee
Edited 12/30/2005 12:21 pm ET by rain_dancer_iam
Ok, past relationships as well. Well, not all sexual partners were from relationships, so I will just talk in terms of partners.
Partner no. 1. initiated more, I have said previously that the sex sucked, he wouldn't do anything about it and thought it was easier to blame me. Of course he wasn't going to get much.
Partner no. 2. I initiated the first time (spent weeks chasing him lol), and him the second time.
Partner no. 3. we both initiated about the same amount.
Partner no. 4. a weekend of sex with a friend of mine, and I would say he initiated more. Sadly it was like having sex with Partner no. 1. again.
Partner no. 5. My current relationship. We both initiate as often as each other.
It's pretty much equal I would say.
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