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interesting question i need answered!
| Wed, 01-12-2005 - 3:17am |
Is it true the faster a guy goes the more he's into you?
What the deal with some men going faster and some not?

What exactly do you mean by "going faster"? Are you talking thrusting speed, rushing foreplay, the motion of his hand or ejaculating quickly?
>>What the deal with some men going faster and some not?<< While I've got absolutely no idea what the subject matter is, I can confidently give you an answer: ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT.
Would you expect all women to have identical bedroom technique? Of course not!!! And men are no different.
As has been stated many times, MEN are individuals, they all have their own brain, their own thoughts, their own feelings, their own movements, their own likes and dislikes, etc.
Assuming you mean sexually, whether you mean pressing for sex faster, or doing "the deed" faster.....a man can have sex with you and not be "into" you AT ALL!
What is the deal? The same deal that gives us some tall men, some short men, some smart men, some dumb men, some nice men, some not so nice men. It's called being a human being, and EVERY human being is different physically, mentally, AND sexually.
Your questions aren't clear so I'm going to assume that you're talking about thrusting speed and answer accordingly.
No, thrusting speed means nothing, other than that he wants to keep his erection and reach orgasm quickly.
Some men have learned more control than others and therefore, can thrust more slowly and maintain their erections.
Men train themselves to orgasm quickly through their masturbation techniques, so they have to learn to slow down and consider the needs of a partner when they make love. That takes longer for some men than others.
I would suggest that you tell your next "speedy gonzales" to slow down and take the scenic route.
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Dear All,
What Arian was referring to was not the speed of thrusting etc. rather she was referring to orgasm. the British and some in Europe Go rather than Cum. It was confusing for me when I was in England because I wasn't sure whether I was coming or going (disgusted chuckle...)
Anyway Arian, The answers that the rest have given you here still apply. Men are individuals just like women. Some times it takes longer and sometimes quicker. I wouldn't judge how "in to you" a man is by how quickly he has an orgasm.
Peace.
Scott.