intiation

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Registered: 02-03-2004
intiation
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Mon, 10-17-2005 - 9:47am
Ok so Ive been seeing this guy for almost 2 months and the sex is pretty good. The problem is 9 times out of 10 unless we are drunk i have to iniate it. like unless I get on top of him its not happening. And i dont know why im starting to feel inseure. Also in past relationships Ive been kinda freaky but I never iniated that so i would like to get us to be freaky but dont know how to without scaring him cuz he seems kinda shy about it all seeing that he waits for me to make the first move all the time. So what should I do?
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Registered: 10-15-2005
In reply to: tdenise_99
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 1:28pm
The best advice I can give is to talk it out with him. Maybe he feels slightly guilty for intiating (maybe thinks you might want it). Tell him it's okay to intiate, or even that you find it really sexy when he initiates.
hope that helps
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: tdenise_99
Mon, 10-17-2005 - 3:04pm
No way to get what you want unless you talk about it. Tell him what you'd like more of and hopefully, he'll listen and try to give it to you. Hinting doesn't work though. He may be shy but he CAN change that with you.