is it okay to tell him it's too small?
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is it okay to tell him it's too small?
| Mon, 05-14-2007 - 1:16pm |
my bff has met this wonderful guy. really great. problem: it's tiny.
now, i konw some people say, oh it does not matter...yada yada...but to me it does and when seeking advice from me, i told her to stop faking and just walk away. but that's just what --i-- would do. what about you ladies?
she does not want to see him anymore. should she make up a false reason why, or tell him the truth. but if she does, it know it will crush his ego. i didn't want to give her the "wrong" advice, having never been in the situation..thank goodness as i don't know how i would handle anything like that...
i keep replaying the scene in sex in the city when samantha told james it was too little...and i know that's not the way to do it!

Short answer:
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i agree, and don't believe she should tell him the TRUTH. he is going to want to know why so she has to say something. i told her to just say im not getting what i need from this relationship, or something along those lines.
she is a very honest person and didn't want to lie but i told her to make an exception.
i don't beleive that every woman can sacrafice her happiness in bed -- for some, yes, size/performance (fill in the blank) does matter -- so i don't think her decision is selfish, she is just doing what makes her happy. i just told her not to hurt him in doing so -- telling him that it's little.
and i agree that when he meets the right person, she won't care.
No, she should not tell him his penis is small (I'm sure he knows what size penis
Welcome to the board sobisou.
I think the other members have summed up my feelings rather well. It's not going to serve any purpose for her to tell him her thoughts about his size. It would just be a mean spirited thing to do.
my partner in the siggy exchange
Hi Ladies:
Each guy knows his measurements. She should just say the relationship isn't working out.....
Mac
It's not lying unless he asks if it's his size and she says no.
I don't think he'll be asking that unless she gives him reason to.
She should never tell him that. Men are senstive about there size just
like we are about are looks and features. Would she want to be told
the relationship is ending because she's to fat or her boobs aren't perfect.
No! So why should she do that to him!
Kareese