It still hurts. Could it be a med issue?
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| Thu, 12-16-2004 - 3:17pm |
I've mentioned this before but I'm getting concerned (health-wise) now. As you know I've been having sex for a few months. In the beginning it was hurting when he would enter me and even after incorporating more foreplay it'still hurting me when he enters. I'm thinking it could be one of two things:
1.) My doctor thinks I have endometriosis which would explain why I get lower back pain sometimes. But also, the pain I have at the beginning of sex and the back discomfort I feel afterwards. (The pain isn't blinding. But it is uncomfortable for a bit, but then it stops and it's fine.) My bf is really patient and he'll go VERY slow in the beginning but I still feel it. I'd tell him to stop if it got bad but it has never gotten to the point where I wasn't enjoying it a couple seconds later.
2.) He's too big, I'm too small? Is that possible? I know the vagina will gradually stretch and I have sex twice or three times every week. It's more like twice in one day...then a few days passes and another couple times the next day after that. So our sex isn't really gradual in that sense. Could this be possible though, for him to be too big when he gets hard and therefore too big for my size?
I know it's not the foreplay thing. Today I was...I don't mean to be blunt...but sketchin REALLY bad. He got me going better than he ever has. (I think he's reading stuff lol) Anyways but it still hurt when he entered. I don't understand. Could something actually be wrong with me?
I don't mean to be repeating questions but I've taken in advice on more foreplay and it hasn't worked. I'm just wondering is there anything else it could be?

Ash, I would make an appt with an ob/gyn and tell him/her you are having pain with intercourse.