is it too big?

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Registered: 07-11-2003
is it too big?
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Fri, 08-13-2004 - 4:41pm
My guy has a pretty big penis (about 8.5-9 inches) and it's a little crooked, which is ok with me, but it also doesn't EVER get totally hard. That really bothers me because it's hard for me to be on top during sex. It's hard to have sex at all sometimes. Is he not turned on enough or what the heck is going on with it? It's even BENT before when he was thrusting! What's wrong with his pee-pee??

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Registered: 01-30-2004
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 3:09pm
I am sure she can do it if she wants to, or at least most of it. I mean the first 3-4" doesn't really involve the throat per se. That's really it -- like most anything else, if you want to do something and it isn't impossible, you'll find a way. It was hard for me at first but now it's easy -- because I can anticipate what my body's reactions are going to be ... it is of course just controlled gagging, and it doesn't hurt or anything, it's just, well, surprising! I'm not saying this is the most worthwhile goal -- Sir Edmund Hillary wanted to climb Mt. Everest and Christy simply wanted wanted to deep throat every bit of her bf's c*ck -- but so it is. Maybe yours is shaped differently? And yes, I threw up on him once learning to do it ... he lived ... :-0

Sorry my email addy doesn't seem to connect through here or I'd coach you further.

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Registered: 08-11-2004
Thu, 09-02-2004 - 10:18am
I don't think its the size. Mine is about the same size ~9 inches and I also have a curve downwards. I sometimes get so hard that it hurts, but the hardness does vary depending upon how horny I am or how long its been. Also the "hotness" of the session either sex or masturbation has an effect on the hardness. Try watching some porn to see if his hardness is any better. I guess everybody is different.

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