is it too soon!

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Registered: 02-26-2008
is it too soon!
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Tue, 02-26-2008 - 2:52pm

This is my first time here so give me a little break.


I met a new guy online. we hit it off really good have a lot in common talk every day on the phone. problem is he lives about 1 hour away. we began talking about 4 months ago. and have met up 4 times. my birthday is coming up next month and he made reservations in Las Vegas for us. 1 room 2 beds. I've never been there so he wants to be the one to take me. Anyhow like I said we've hit it off pretty good. and theres always some kind of sexual conversations but we agreed we weren't going to push anything. but he said he would leave it up to me of when it would be ok. I want to and he wants to but I don't want him to think I'm easy and then diss me.


I NEED ADVICE AND IDEAS PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: mom_tila
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 3:56pm

Welcome to the board, mom-tila.

If I may be so bold as to ask ..... If you have sex with him in Vegas, will you think he is easy and therefore wish to dis him?

If and when you have a sexual relationship with another adult, as an adult yourself, is entirely up to each of you and how you feel about it. Consider how you feel about him, what you want from the relationship and how you will feel about yourself after having this encounter. Let those answers guide you, not what others might think.

Personally, I don't think he would consider you easy and then dis you. If he did, that would say way more about him than it does about you.



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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: mom_tila
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 12:03am

If you have doubts, then it's too soon for YOU.

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Registered: 05-20-2007
In reply to: mom_tila
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 11:03pm

Don't over think things...


If the timing and mood

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Registered: 10-30-2003
In reply to: mom_tila
Thu, 02-28-2008 - 10:17pm

Hello mom_tila,


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Registered: 01-25-2008
In reply to: mom_tila
Fri, 02-29-2008 - 8:18am

hi there


if you both want it then go for it - you are both adults so why wait...the last bloke I went to bed on the 1st date I stayed with for 20 years, with my present bf I went to bed on the 1st date too, but I have known him for quite a long time as a friend..so good luck and have fun, but don't forget about the protection


belladonna


p.s. maybe us brits are a bit more open about sex?! I know a lot of my friends who went to bed on the 1st/2nd date, or maybe it's just to do with the medical field professionals?!