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| Mon, 01-24-2005 - 2:09pm |
Is it true the faster the guy goes, the more he's into you?
It sounded alittle like a myth to me, but i wanted to make sure :)
(And if that's not the case, sorry to get technical, but then what does make some guys go faster and some go slow?)
Thnx!

Maybe you didn't understand the answers to your original post. That's because we have a language barrier here. No on here realized that you're from England, and even though we all speak "English", we have different words for some things. Everyone here thought you meant "thrusting" when you said "go faster". Then someone pointed out that when you say "go" you mean reach climax and ejaculation. Here, we say "come" or "cum", just the opposite of "go".
How quickly a man finishes has NOTHING to do with how much he's "into" you, or how he feels about you. Some guys are faster than other guys. Just as some women are faster to reach orgasm than other women. It's just the way they are. Everyone is different. Most younger guys finish faster, because they haven't learned how to control it. Most older guys know that it's better if they can last longer, and they learn to control it more. Then there are guys who have emotional hang-ups, and they can take forever. They can be madly in love with their partner.....but they just can't "let go" and let it happen.
Do not judge a man by how long sex lasts with him. Do not compare one man with the last man, because ALL men are different. The only thing that matters is that you're both happy with the relationship. Do not blame yourself if a man has a problem finishing. That's HIS problem, and has nothing to do with you. Just as a man should not think it's his fault if a woman doesn't have an orgasm. Many men think that the woman just isn't into him if she doesn't....and in reality, many women just don't HAVE orgasms.....it has nothing to do with their feelings.
If you want to know how a man feels about you, don't use sex as a measure. Look at the whole relationship, and look at how he treats you, and whether or not he makes you happy OUT of bed, not in bed. Some of the worst relationships in the world have great sex, and some of the best have so-so sex. Sex doesn't make a relationship, it just enhances it.