Is it true? Do some men not enjoy ....
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| Fri, 08-13-2004 - 6:28pm |
Oral sex? My new man enjoys giving, but informed me he does not like receiving. He said it just doesn't do anything for him, he prefers penetration. It was all I could do to prevent my jaw from hitting the floor. Of course he told me this AFTER I tried to initiate sex by giving him oral. Now, don't try to blame my technique, I've had nothing but rave reviews previously. I'm just a little confused....I thought men loved bjs. Any insight? Anyone?

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...sometimes it depends on what the man is in the mood for at the time too. Mrs. Para and I enjoy deep grinding intercourse SO MUCH that at times we could really really care less about anything else, LOL!
YES its true that some men don't masturbate just like some women don't. The clitoris, by what I've learned anyway, is MUCH more sensitive than the head of a penis, yet we're taught for the most part that there are actually more women who don't masturbate than there are men who don't. Now we'll never really know, but we all have our own theories anyway. Glad we have message boards like this to add some opinion to our thinking, LOL!!
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Maybe your guy is like that, if he can't finish, he figures why bother. How sad that they don't realize that some women love to give it, and whether or not he finishes has nothing to do with their pleasure in doing it.
A good relationship means "give and take". If he doesn't particularly care for it, but she does, then why not let her do it? If he loves giving, and she doesn't get much out of it, will it kill her to let him do it anyway?
I'm not talking about force here, just simple ambivalence. If something is particularly distasteful to a person, their partner should understand that, and not try to force or harass them into doing something completely against their beliefs or morals. It's called communication and compromise.
Thats interesting, cause there's that SAME saying about women too, LOL, albeit a different number. There's even another saying that faking orgasms isn't the only thing they're good at faking either.
*****Thank goodness we all know better than to believe every "there's a saying" that we hear about though. LOL!! ;D
Good point you brought up.
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