It turns me on !!

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Registered: 04-25-2005
It turns me on !!
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Tue, 06-14-2005 - 4:46pm
I know it turns guys on when a girl plays with herself but ladies, does it turn you on when a guy jerks off in front of you. When im in bed with ill be touching him and one times he was playing with himself and it totally turned me on. or when we watch tv, he'll stick his hand down his pants and i like to watch. am i weird or is this the same for any of you girls ?

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Registered: 05-27-2005
Tue, 06-14-2005 - 4:54pm
it turns me on alot too. I always ask my bf to play w/ himself in front of me. He does it for me, but I can tell he is very self concious... so than we engage in mutual mastrubation... i watch him and he watches me.. it's alot of fun.
But sometimes i wish I'd just sit back and watch him play w/ himself and make himself cum.
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Registered: 04-25-2005
Tue, 06-14-2005 - 5:39pm
exactly lol. i just want to be able to watch him pleasure himself and then cum. it turns me on so much .. its like an adrenaline rush hahaha !
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 06-14-2005 - 5:44pm
Yes, like anything else, it turns some women on and not others. My DH doesn't masturbate in front of me, but of course, all men touch themselves. Doesn't really turn me on though...I'd rather be the one doing the touching!
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Registered: 04-11-2005
Tue, 06-14-2005 - 6:08pm
Oh, yes, it turns me on. I have had two ex-BFs that would do it and I loved it. The only thing is, my current BF won't do it. He will do almost anything else I could ever imagine or want, but he won't touch himself in front of me, even though I have told him how much I would enjoy it. Well, I guess we all have our boundaries. And he doesn't mind (of course!) watching me touch myself.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Tue, 06-14-2005 - 6:21pm
It really turns my partner on. She'll usually either end up masturbating while watching or she'll help me out. When she does that she usually ends up cumming by rubbing against my leg. :-)
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Registered: 12-28-2004
Wed, 06-15-2005 - 8:10am

We have tried to do this. DW does a slwo strip tease while I start out on masturbation but I have never finished alone on my own. DW just cannot keep her hands away and just has to get into the act as soon s she is naked. But who's complaining ?
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Registered: 05-01-2003
Wed, 06-15-2005 - 9:22am
I love watching men, especially when they start from scratch, as it were. I have always found the way a man grows from soft and flaccid to hard and eager fascinating, as well as the delight and pleasure it gives him. Like a puppy with his tongue hanging out, it always shows on his face. What I like is to have him get to the very edge of release and then to intervene. Elaine
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Registered: 11-22-2004
Wed, 06-15-2005 - 10:10am
I agree this is SOOOO sexy. Hard to describe. My current bf has no problem pleasuring himself in front of me. Sometimes he will "help" with bjs, or masturbate right on my face so I get to see it from just a few inches away and the whole this is HOT!!! Sometimes when we first get in bed, I'm not sure if he even realizes it but he will start stroking his penis absent-mindedly and making it hard. He has a large penis and holds it just so and I think it is very very very hot.
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Registered: 07-22-2004
Wed, 06-15-2005 - 1:45pm

LOL, uh oh, I guess I'm the odd man out again when it comes to what guys like, cause I'd rather be the one handling the Mrs. rather than watching and not touching. ;D

Now I DO like seeing her in certain tease outfits and in certain poses, but I guess I never had a thing for watching her touch herself...doesn't do anything for me I guess. Everybody's different. :)

 

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Wed, 06-15-2005 - 4:51pm
Many, many moons ago I saw in a porn flick a woman laying down on a table outdoors and she was surrounded by about six or seven men. They were all masturbating(and eventually came all over her). Ever since then, watching a man masturbate has turned me on immensely. It's amazing, but I still see that scene in my head and it's been over twenty years since I watched it. ...and whoever says that porn doesn't affect our fantasies...


Edited 6/15/2005 5:13 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )

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