It's All About Sex

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Registered: 03-27-2003
It's All About Sex
Sun, 11-26-2006 - 2:08pm

For a long time I have had confidence problems with women and now I am beginning to understand why. I want to have sex and my body tells me so, but due to the influence of the conservative culture in which I grew up, I have unknowingly suppressed my urges with ideas like, "sex should come with love," "casual sex is dehumanizing" and so on. For I have disapproved of how I want to interact with women, it is not suprisng that I lack confidence.

Do I make any sense and did any one go through the same experience? What can I do to "heal" myself? Thanks!